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  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,349 Forumite
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    And surprise surprise, he's paid £132 again for April, so that's now almost £1,000 in arrears. Here we go again .....
    Mortgage Total: £51,549 / £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1079
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,659 Ambassador
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    He really is a selfish bumble bee.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,349 Forumite
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    Nope Beanie ... bumble bees are very cute and very useful. He has neither of these features :rotfl::rotfl:
    Mortgage Total: £51,549 / £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1079
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,659 Ambassador
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    Nope Beanie ... bumble bees are very cute and very useful. He has neither of these features :rotfl::rotfl:

    :rotfl::rotfl: Sorry to the bumble bees!!
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Maybe a wasp? But wasps also have some uses?

    Anyway sorry to hear about the CSA and also feel the spending money thing is unreasonable too!

    Sounds like your son did amazingly at the interview and all excellent experience for him.
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

    Progress not Perfection
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,659 Ambassador
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    Happy holidays :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,349 Forumite
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    edited 6 April 2019 at 7:03PM
    Ahh, so finally the Easter holidays are here - it's been another mammoth week but we made it ;)

    Today I have done a craft fair, took £34, was a strange one - started off quite busy but then totally died for the last 90 minutes. I'm hoping to have an open house next weekend too.

    In other news ... yet more CSA nonsense - today I have received a letter from them saying the ex is taking them to court as he still disagrees with the amount they say he should be paying :cool:
    He finally responded to my text about the spending money, he has asked if ds can take £100 with him :rotfl::rotfl: Considering he currently contributes £132 a month I can't believe the cheek of him to ask for £100 of it for the week he has ds :eek: He said he didn't expect me to pay it but for ds to take it out of the money he earns at his part-time job :eek::eek: He is 15 years old, his money goes into his savings other than £10 a week. I've told him ds won't be taking any money and he can parent him instead and provide for him, like I do the other 51 weeks of the year :mad:

    So, now I need to do my 'To Do' list for the 2 weeks ahead, this will do for starters, I'm sure there will be more added to it:
    • Get boiler serviced
    • Smear test
    • Paint hallway
    • Gut ds bedroom
    • Clean the car inside and out
    • Ds revision timetable
    • Catch up on surveys
    • Clean windows
    • But new spatula & garlic press
    • Buy frame for picture
    • Car boot if weather allows

    In other news, this month there is a fantastic offer on my cards if anyone is interested, it sounds complicated but it really isn't ...

    Basically the cards are usually £2.00 each but this month you can get 25 cards, a sheet of gift-wrap and 2 gift-tags, delivered, for £30.40 :money: :money: This is how:
    1. Go onto my website and join my Customer Club (you will get about 1 email per month with offers etc) https://www.flamingopaperie.co.uk/web/joharding
    2. Place an order for £30 - any 19 cards from the range will be £30.40
    3. You will then qualify for FREE delivery
    4. You will also qualify for a FREE gift as it's your 1st order - the Flamingo card, a sheet of Flamingo gift-wrap and 2 gift-tags
    5. You will also qualify for Aprils offer - the 5 best-selling cards FREE
    6. So, total spend = £30.40 and you will get 25 cards & giftwrap and 2 x tags, works out at £1.15 per card!! Stock up now for birthdays, anniversaries, summer weddings etc!
    Any questions just ask :)
    Mortgage Total: £51,549 / £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1079
  • savingmore
    savingmore Posts: 661 Forumite
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    Hi, benbenandme,

    I haven’t posted for a looong time but still follow your thread and life. I had a quick look at your card site, having a few days in chilly london! when i get home at the end of the week I will put an order in, that’s great value, and I i’ve to hold some cards at home....tx for sharing yr offer! and hope you have a great holiday and hear from the csa some good news....
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,349 Forumite
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    edited 7 April 2019 at 1:46PM
    Thank you SavingMore, it's much appreciated!! It really is fabulous value, if I'm honest some cards are better than others - I tend to prefer the 6x6 size cards (5x5 can look a bit small), and all the cards are made on decent quality paper so don't feel like the cheap high street ones ;)
    Mortgage Total: £51,549 / £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1079
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,659 Ambassador
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    The cards so look fab :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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