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Wife taking surname

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  • happy 2018 tatitha....
  • Wondering if there's a reason OP keeps on making a post on here (according to the main board of sub-forums) - but when one looks it up to see what he has said = it's never actually there.

    To my knowledge that's happened twice today.:cool:

    If you're gonna make posts - it might help if you stop deleting them shortly afterwards....:cool:
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Wondering if there's a reason OP keeps on making a post on here (according to the main board of sub-forums) - but when one looks it up to see what he has said = it's never actually there.

    To my knowledge that's happened twice today.:cool:

    If you're gonna make posts - it might help if you stop deleting them shortly afterwards....:cool:

    I think it's a forum glitch - I've seen it happen on quite a few threads over the last couple of months. The first was on the benefits board and a very well respected, long standing member.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • NeilCr
    NeilCr Posts: 4,430 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Ames wrote: »
    I think it's a forum glitch - I've seen it happen on quite a few threads over the last couple of months. The first was on the benefits board and a very well respected, long standing member.

    Isn’t it to do with the fact that it’s a poll.

    Every time someone votes (but doesn’t post) the thread gets bumped up. You think there has been a new post and see the name - but, in fact, all it is is the last actual post on the thread. There is no new post
  • LilElvis
    LilElvis Posts: 5,835 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Wondering if there's a reason OP keeps on making a post on here (according to the main board of sub-forums) - but when one looks it up to see what he has said = it's never actually there.

    To my knowledge that's happened twice today.:cool:

    If you're gonna make posts - it might help if you stop deleting them shortly afterwards....:cool:

    I think when someone votes in the poll it bumps the thread up again.
  • Happy for the thread to be locked admins, it's run its course
  • Happy for the thread to be locked admins, it's run its course

    If you want it locked you'll have to message them, they won't read this.
  • Not really that fussed tbh honest. :-)
  • I didn't take my husband's surname and we've been married for 10 years and now have a baby. I just wanted to keep the name I was born with as it's part of my identity, there's no need to worry about your partner not taking your name. Some people just like their names!
  • jimbo747
    jimbo747 Posts: 630 Forumite
    Wife and I double-barreled our names together. What were 2 ordinary names now sound very posh too!
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