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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Wannabe take time for yourself again soon ! The traffic in town tonight was horrendous, took forever to get home . I hope you didn’t get stuck in any !

    Do you know is there an Iceland in or near B town centre.?

    It was crazy today, I'm not sure why it's been so bad.

    There is, on Manchester road facing where the old community college was. I think it use to be focus? Next to pets at home. It's quite big too!
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    Finally bed time I think.

    Uniforms are done and I've looked through the fridge...

    I think I need to make some soup tomorrow. I've boiled some eggs to add to the smalls salad. One has chicken one has tuna.

    There's some spag bol I will make into a lasagne I think and give with salad and make garlic bread using up some more things.

    Dinner will probably be chicken dinner.

    Another shop planned for Friday using Mr Sains voucher. Need porridge, milk, fruit, veg and a few tins (toms/beans) We have some but I like to have enough Also need to stop in the £ shop for some more tubs to freeze leftovers/soup in.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    January goals

    Debt Focus
    Council Tax £1350
    New debt £100
    Rent arrears £2885*

    Money
    £80 Groceries - £22.60/£80

    Extra income


    Plans
    [STRIKE]6th - Sister Birthday[/STRIKE]
    Youngest appointments
    Decorate Bathroom
    Decorate Toilet
    Decorate My Bedroom

    List of things I need to sort
    Youngest - lift the flap books
    Buy a Kettle
    [STRIKE]Buy Mugs[/STRIKE] £2.50
    Buy 1 photo frame
    Buy storage boxes for new things
    [STRIKE]Send Sister a birthday card[/STRIKE] £3.62
    Buy bed
    [STRIKE]Buy toddler bed[/STRIKE] £45
    Buy TV
    Organise DD Birthday - Think they want a party _pale_ Will encourage a shared one if this is the case, I'd rather a day out :o

    Unbudgeted spends
    £8.10 Mr A Pjs, Jumper, Xmas treats,sweets
    £2.60 Coffee
    £3 Tupperware
    £6 Scales

    *Sent £226.14 to rent 05/01 I don't think it will have brought the arrears down much yet though until I've caught up I will get an updated figure end of the month when I've paid more
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    I have to plan for the birthdays.

    Mine 7th Feb - (Not important but smalls want to make cards & cake :wall:)
    DD is 17th Feb
    DS is 2nd March
    Youngest 8th March

    DD & DS really want a party, I feel bad if I say no. SO I need to plan it on a budget. They will probably have a shared party on the weekend in the middle. I doubt anyone will want to come on 3 consecutive weekends to the same family's party.

    Positive sides are
    I can make the cake
    I can make the food
    We are crafty and can make games/decorations etc

    Negative
    I don't want everyone at my house :o So will have to find something. Maybe the church hall? or the high school? Will have a look into it.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    If you hire like local community hall they are £50/£60. I have done that before and with surveys it covers for decorations xxx
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
  • System
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    Thanks WF for directions for Iceland .

    Parties are not cheap WF , with food, hire of a room , party bags .etc, but am sure you will come up with a plan.

    Local church hall sounds good.
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  • WannabeFree
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    I know, I'm hoping she agrees to a day out instead :o :rotfl:
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Afternoon :)

    Another busy day, I'm so ready for the weekend!

    DS says he doesn't feel great :( I hope it isn't another bug already! They've not even been back at school 5 days!

    We used leftovers for dinner and they are having a picky dinner. I think we all need an early one.

    Lots of stuff going on x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Toni'sfriend
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    There just seem to be bugs everywhere just now. Hope it doesn't come to anything.
    I know what you mean about parties. When the boy was little I would hire somewhere because it was just easier than having hordes of children rampaging around the house but it is expensive. I'm sure you'll think of something - you're very inventive. As is everyone here apart from me!
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • mummytogirls
    mummytogirls Posts: 6,578 Forumite
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    Hope DS isn't coming down with something WF, weve got the sickness doing the rounds at my school again.

    Re the party I'm sure a church hall or similar is going to the cheapest option. Weve done lots of parties that way xx
    Mummytogirls x

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