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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • Cherryfudge
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    Lovely to see you having some money coming in. :) Enjoy your day - I know just what you mean about it being quiet without the little ones around!
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  • WannabeFree
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    I really don't like it when I have to send them back to school Cherry :o I'm always the odd one at school counting down to the next school holiday rather than dying to send them back.

    Well went for a walk - it's cold! Not as cold as yesterday though. Stopped into a relative for 10 mins but didn't stay and decided to continue walking. Posted some things in the red box (I'm not sure it's in use, I never see anyone else posting in this one and it seems quite full :cool:) Going to investigate! As I've dropped quite a lot in over the last few months and I don't think I've had confirmation that anything has actually arrived where it was supposed too! Maybe I'm thinking distant relatives haven't replied and they just haven't received what I've sent :cool:

    Spag bol for dinner tonight I think then leftovers can become lasagne and chilli for the freezer. Plenty of salad to eat too. I might have some now actually for my lunch.

    Hope you're all having a good day x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Sayschezza
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  • Glad you enjoyed a walk and some fresh air.

    I hate mine going back to school too.

    Have a lovely afternoon.
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  • beanielou
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    Great news on the pennies & on the respite.
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  • beanielou
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    RE post box just take a note of the box number which is on the white bit that tells you last collection time ok.
    HTH.
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
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  • Chrystal
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    Well today say the Cheque clear along with the £100 from the referral to nationwide went into the bank. I should use this to the debt but for now I'm not :o

    I'm keeping it so I can pay the rent if needed while waiting for everything to be sorted. I was down to 27p in the bank :rotfl: So I don't want to send it to the council tax now then not be able to pay the rent.

    Unplanned 'morning off' this morning, youngest has respite in for 2 hours. That also came as a shock.

    I don't know what to do with myself once I've dropped the bigger two at school :cool:

    Dinner last night was diet coke chicken, savoury rice and broccoli tonight unsure yet.

    Hope you all have a good day x

    Surely they're supposed to let you know beforehand so that you can make arrangements? Do you get regular respite - it would be nice to be able to arrange to meet up with a friend for a coffee/chat if you were able to arrange it. X
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  • Toni'sfriend
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    Hello
    Keeping the money till things are sorted sounds like an excellent idea.
    I do hope you get some regular respite. Even a couple of hours a week to let you go out would be really good for you.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • WannabeFree
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    We don't get regular respite but apparently I'd agreed while at a visit to the hospital with this latest illness :o I don't remember them saying it would happen, but then our visits are usually at small hours of the morning and stressful. It was nice though.

    I'm really tired :o I hope I can actually fall to sleep at a decent time tonight.

    I've no jobs to do, smalls are in the bath and then can head to bed with a film I think after we've read.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    Today is 8 months since coming back.

    My only real debt now is Council tax and Rent arrears. Still a big amount together but a lot better than when I started :o

    The new debt is now paid off. I wanted it gone before Xmas so I've just done it. We'll manage we have plenty of food ;)
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
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