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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,426 Forumite
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    Pleased you went to your friends - not pleased you have new financial commitment.
    Hope ds enjoys his trip.
    January spends - £587.58
  • Toni'sfriend
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    Just popping in to say hello.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,189 Forumite
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    Concerned about the position you've been put in - can you get out of it?
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • WannabeFree
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    I deleted a lot of that post so it doesn't make much sense now.

    I'm not sure what I'm going to do SA. I feel stuck tbh and worried no matter which action I take there will be some consequence for me and the smalls. The obvious route probably being the worst. I'm going to get the smalls in school tomorrow and out of the way and see what I can do. I think it will be lingering for a while which isn't ideal but it definitely needs approaching with caution. I realise this probably still doesn't give a good explanation but I have to be careful what's said when so many now know us in real life.

    Anyway

    Sundays done. We made it though the day. We didn't bake so I'm going to have to rustle something up for tomorrow.

    Hope you've all had a good weekend

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Wannabe I hope you are ok!!! If you ever need to talk just send a we mail xx
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
  • UncannyScot
    UncannyScot Posts: 2,070 Forumite
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    ^^^like wise, if you need anything or an ear, just let us know^^^
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • WannabeFree
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    Thank you.

    I've reached out to as many places as possible today. Awaiting to hear back from most.

    Will be taking on some debt. Once sorted I will be looking into moving house asap. Which will now be easier now there isn't any court order for the rent arrears I should be able to transfer to another place with the same HA. Need to solve the first problem before that though.

    So if I am quiter than usual (Not that I've had lots to say anyway) I just have a lot on in the background.

    The budgets been over since the first day of the month. It resets on Friday when UC comes in.

    I'm not sure what else to say

    But thank you for all your replies and help

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 2,005 Forumite
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    Thinking about you Wannabe, and hoping that things get sorted quickly for you. (((hugs))) X
    I Believe.....
    That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
    Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

    Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
    Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.

    happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
    but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy
  • Toni'sfriend
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    Hope you get everything sorted out, W. Is it fairly easy to transfer to another house. I know that you haven't really been happy where you are with all the things that have happened. I hope you get somewhere more suitable soon.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • jwil
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    Hope you manage to get everything sorted and a new start in a new place soon x
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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