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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Thank you. I will catch up and reply properly tomorrow.

    I'm okay it's been a hard couple of days. We have some more news in on youngest which was hard. Along with other stuff going on. I promise I will fit time in tomorrow to read your replies and things x.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Cherryfudge
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    Sending you hugs Wannabe xx
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

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    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
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  • Thinking of you...
    paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
    2025 savings challenge £0/£2000
    EF £140. Savings 2 £30.00. 17
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,515 Forumite
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    More (gentle) hugs going your way from here WF.
    🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    Balance as at 31/08/25 = £ 95,450.00
    £100k barrier broken 1/4/25
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  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 2,005 Forumite
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    Having to accept that some things are likely to happen can be hard. Keep up your hope and try to stay positive. (((hugs))) XX
    I Believe.....
    That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
    Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

    Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
    Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.

    happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
    but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy
  • Sorry to hear that Wannabe :(. Thinking of you.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    More thoughts from here (and moggie cuddles).
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Same here, Wannabe...come back to us when you feel ready and we all still love you and are thinking about you all. :kisses3:
    Debt: £11,640.02 paid in full! DFD: 30/06/20
    Starter Emergency Fund (#187): £1000/£1000
    3 month Emergency Fund (#45): £3300/£3300
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Weekly Out
    £160 Rent (Paid)
    £25.60 CT (Paid)
    £15 Gas not done :o
    £15 Electric (topped up)
    £34.20 Water (nearly caught up :o)
    £7.50 TV License (nearly caught up :o)
    £2.50 for phone credit (topped up £10)

    £20 Debt (Paid)

    £2 Snack

    Paid what I can today, really need to grab some grocery shopping - everything is so empty. We've used nearly all the 'stores' and the smalls have commented on there being nothing :o Also need to find train fare and bus fare to two appointments this week. One over at the children's and one more local.

    Bank balance £11.97

    Debt

    Debt £129? I think Paid
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Morning :o

    Sorry I didn't come back - just posting to keep me on track.

    Smalls are off school now. Will need to get them out of bed soon. Have let them lay in later than usual.

    Have caught up on some more bills I fell behind on. We have two big appointments this coming week. One over at the children's and one more local. Both I need to find travel money for. Really need some food shopping too. It's very bare. We've used up a lot of our stores.

    Another week over. Just trying to make it through :o still stressed and worried.

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
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