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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,264 Forumite
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    I hope today went well x
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • I hope you're okay Wannabe and manage to sleep better tonight.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,199 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hope you can sleep a bit better tonight :) x
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited 9 April 2019 at 9:01PM
    Just catching up. Great you are so close to being debt free, hang on in there.

    I was thinking of you and your littlies today. I run a lunch club in the hols to give free school meals and an hour of activites. It's tough work but the past few days have broken my heart. Some of the children I've had real concerns about, some of them so underfed - hungry - and this is the only meal they get in a day. They are dirty and no parents drop them off or pick them up - kids aged 5!! Some say their parents frighten them and they are basically passed out due to achohol abuse. (I'm not judging anybody times are hard and things are difficult but I have reported the things I need to report as I have to)

    It made me think of you because no matter what life throws at you, and no matter how little cash you have, and how difficult life is, you give your children a loving, stable and FANTASTIC childhood. It doesn't cost much - but you work so hard at it and you are such an amazing mum.

    I'm sorry if this isn't appropriate, I have just been pretty shocked the past few days and thinking of you and how much you love and would do anything for your children - well, it's the opposite of what I've been dealing with.

    Keep on keeping on and be proud of yourself!
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

    Progress not Perfection
  • Well said Earthgirl :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • teafor2
    teafor2 Posts: 3,322 Forumite
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    Hi WB :) Just popped on to catch up with you but you're very quiet. Hope all is OK with you and the smalls. xx
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,199 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Yes, you are very quiet.
    Hope you are all ok x
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,262 Forumite
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    Oh that's just dire Earthgirl, so sad :( It's a shame those poor children don't all have mums like WBF.

    Hope all is ok WBF xx
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • I also hope that you're okay Wannabe.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • maggiem
    maggiem Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    And me - hoping ungrammatically everything is ok?
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