“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

Busy_Mee1

Aw Wannabe bless you take a deep breath and don't make any decisions until you have all the information on Monday. There could be another solution and you need all the facts before you make a plan.

This is your worse case scenario plan but there could be another that won't leave you so short of money. I suspect as others have said that this is .
just a mistake or miscommunication between offices and you can indeed continue paying £5 a week.

Unfortunately it has hit you when you have just had the week from hell and making plans to take control will help you feel better, but I feel like there will be a better plan when you have all the facts.

You just need to be kind to yourself this weekend Wannabe, try and do whatever helps you to destress. I suspect what you really need at the moment is some sleep...you must be absolutely exhausted and everything looks awful when you are tired.

You are an amazing Mum, you are so strong and you have coped so well in the face of such challenges. Please be kind to yourself xx

WannabeFree

Thank you so much

I don't want to post much.

It's been some of the hardest days over the last fortnight. And while we have some answers. Some are still unanswered/can't be. We are so much luckier than plenty. We have time. But how long is that time 'good'? (How longs a piece of string) we are all on borrowed time.

We need to enjoying now, why we are able. We need to make the most of what we've got.

Being honest I'm not in that place of being able too and I need to be. For the smalls more than for me.

I just need it gone and this has made me realise why it's so important and makes me so much more grateful for everything I've received/done and where I am now in the journey. It could be so much worse but this does feel huge right now.

HairyHandofDartmoor

I'm sorry you've had to come home to a stressful letter like that Wannabe . It would make me worried too, but I am POSITIVE that's it's a mistake and a case of one department not knowing what the other department is doing.

I know it's hard not to worry, but please try not to worry. If it doesn't make sense then it can't be right. And this letter does not make sense in view of what you agreed with them. So it must be a mistake.

I'm sure you will be able to get it sorted out and put your mind at rest on Monday, but until then try not to worry. I know it's hard not to, but try not to. It's very rare for the worst to happen and usually in life we worry about things far more than we need to.

Thinking of you. x

WannabeFree

I've just read my last post back and seen how many spelling mistakes there are and it doesn't make much sense

In other better news I think family fund are helping towards the holiday costs. So I'll just have a small amount to cover and travel. Will call them this week too.

Just getting the smalls into bed. Their own beds! They slept in so late this morning I think they missed home just as much as I did.

beanielou

Blimey.
I was so not expecting to log on today & read your latest news.
Always around to help in any way that I can.
Keep plodding xx

WannabeFree

Thank you Beanie. Sure I'll be in your ear moaning Much appreciated

I'm still catching up with everyone (slowly) I will get round to everyones diaries I feel I'm rude not checking in when you're all here for me but I am catching up I promise! You can all talk that's for sure

x

teafor2

Don't waste your time catching up with me WB. Every day is pretty much the same :rotfl: xx

earthgirl

Another one not leaving, and totally understand your need to get rid of worry and stress to get your MH back on track. Hope Monday brings answers and relief x Take care and let me know if I can help x

UncannyScot

No way would any of us leave WannabeFree, no way.

As, I've always said, you can contact me ANYTIME and if I can help in any way I will.

Like others have said, it looks like a case of one department not communicating with another.
Contact everyone that needs contacting on Monday and try not to over worry on this, it can and will be sorted.

In the nicest, bestest possible way, we've got you, we're not letting go, we're not giving up, we're going to help you kick the carp out of all these issues / problems and make sure you and the wee yins come through happy and debt free...

beanielou

UncannyScot wrote: »

No way would any of us leave WannabeFree, no way.

As, I've always said, you can contact me ANYTIME and if I can help in any way I will.

Like others have said, it looks like a case of one department not communicating with another.
Contact everyone that needs contacting on Monday and try not to over worry on this, it can and will be sorted.

In the nicest, bestest possible way, we've got you, we're not letting go, we're not giving up, we're going to help you kick the carp out of all these issues / problems and make sure you and the wee yins come through happy and debt free...

This. Just this:A:A