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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
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    Fingers crossed if Wednesday goes to plan we will be home Thursday if everything can be put into place to work together. Would be lovely if we can.

    Everyone's asleep which means I'm having my coffee then going to read for a while.

    x
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  • Cherryfudge
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    That's very positive news Wannabe :) It's been quite a stay but I hope that means they have been very thorough and made progress with understanding what's going on with your little one and how best to help her.

    Enjoy the coffee x
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  • You are a brillant mum doing so well in very difficult circumstances. I have been there and know how hard it is and I had family. back up. Thinking of you even though I dont post often.xx
  • abba1772
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    Fingers crossed you're all home on Thursday wannabe xx
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  • WannabeFree
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    04/03/19
    Debt
    Council Tax £0
    Credit card £0
    Rent arrears £0
    Court Costs £489

    Total £489

    Weekly Out - Budget now
    £99.10 to rent Paid
    £5 to Court costs Paid
    £25.60 to this years council tax Paid
    £15 Gas
    £15 Electric
    £11.40 Water Paid
    £5.60 TV License Paid
    £2.50 for phone credit

    £4/£190 - Medical item. Will start adding to this once home.


    Bank Balance now £0.32

    I will need to pop and check the gas and electric and post. Hoping to put less on gas/electric as it's not been used and put the extra on my phone credit.

    Also
    £61 for school + £2 Snack paid
    £10 taxis
    £15 Breakfast/Lunch/Dinners

    Must remember to call and change my own appointments around again.
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  • WannabeFree
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    Morning

    Smalls in school and I'm back sat having a coffee before getting on with today.

    Paid for breakfast and after school care until Wednesday. Might need breakfast club Thursday but hoping to be home on Thursday so shouldn't need after school club. Fingers crossed!

    Heavily relying on others to get everything in place for coming home with more 'needs' than normal makes me anxious :o if it doesn't fall into place we won't be able to go home.

    Not a NSD of course. Paid school and £5 taxi. Plus my coffee. Need a taxi back to school later and then the smalls will need dinner. Really hope we get home :o

    Need to call and change my appointments again. Will put them off for a couple of weeks rather than keep changing last minute.

    Have a lovely day

    x
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  • teafor2
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    Morning WB :) Hope you all manage to get home on Thursday and back to some sort of normality.

    If it's been acknowledged by the professionals DD needs equipment at night and they've provided it, would they not also provide a portable one so she can carry on as normal during the day? Having to be near a power supply seems pretty limiting to me :o

    Hope you get some more answers today. Hang in there, fingers crossed you're on the home run now. xx
  • monz
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    Hope you get good news <3
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  • jwil
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    You are coping so well with all of this WF, hope you get home on Thursday x
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  • beanielou
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    POsitive positive vibes for Thursday xx

    If I was you I would be going back to the MP's office & telling of the current situation & pushing for their help now. JUst my thoughts.
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