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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
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    Think it's nearly bed time for me I'm so tired. Can't believe we are a week into the new year already!

    Feel anxious tonight and yet I have no real reason. Just can't seem to settle it.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
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    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    I feel antsy too :(
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • WannabeFree
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    edited 7 January 2019 at 10:21PM
    beanielou wrote: »
    I feel antsy too :(

    Horrible isn't it?

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,642 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Look at it this way WB.
    People would not offer to help in whatever way if they did not want to.
    People offer to help me & now 9 times out of 10 I now accept.
    A friend helped me with a couple of things in the house the other day that I can no longer manage.
    It only took them about 10 minutes and we were both happy!
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • WannabeFree
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Look at it this way WB.
    People would not offer to help in whatever way if they did not want to.
    People offer to help me & now 9 times out of 10 I now accept.
    A friend helped me with a couple of things in the house the other day that I can no longer manage.
    It only took them about 10 minutes and we were both happy!

    Thank you Beanie, I always worry how I come across. Even my posts on my diary/other diaries I'm worried it comes across wrong and I'll offend someone :o

    I do always try to help where I can and I will definitely pay it forward and help others when and where I can in the future.
    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,642 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Thank you Beanie, I always worry how I come across. Even my posts on my diary/other diaries I'm worried it comes across wrong and I'll offend someone :o

    I do always try to help where I can and I will definitely pay it forward and help others when and where I can in the future.
    x
    how you inspire others

    & remember how you inspire others just by being you & doing what you do :A
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Glad the children had a good day at school.

    Lots of helpful advice for you re: home ed. I think you would be excellent at it. It may be the perfect answer for you and your little one. I'm sure you will give it a lot of thought, tbh if school places aren't too much of a problem near you I think i would give home ed a chance.

    The school years fly by, seems only yesterday I was taking my eldest to nursery - now she drives herself to Uni !!!! the time has gone in the blink of an eye:cool:
  • WannabeFree
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    Thank you Beanie x

    Thank you too LMW here isn't a very desirable area as you probably know and there is quite a few okay school choices.

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    Cashed out £5.90 from PA. Not sure what it will be after fees but will send straight over to the credit card when it hits :) or maybe towards DS's trip :cool: Decisions.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,642 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    The card may be best because of the interest?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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