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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • The rent arrears are 'joint' including the court costs.

    It's me that would be made homeless though if the arrangement isn't stuck too not him.

    He is helping in other ways right now though so I won't rock the boat.

    I'm hoping to top it up with surveys and things. Although I haven't really done any for weeks! :o
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Cherryfudge
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    I'm hoping to top it up with surveys and things. Although I haven't really done any for weeks! :o

    You can do it! Don't pressurise yourself to do it at the cost of setting your health back, though. Easier said than done, I know. x
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  • I will do it ;)

    The last 8 weeks have been double tough. However the end is in sight and I can be back focused on the debt busting properly.

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    Bills to be paid in February

    Rent [STRIKE]£226.14[/STRIKE] Paid
    Rent [STRIKE]£226.14[/STRIKE] Paid + £12.5-extra
    Council Tax [STRIKE]£45[/STRIKE] £20
    Virgin [STRIKE]£70[/STRIKE] Paid
    Electric [STRIKE]£80[/STRIKE] Done
    Gas [STRIKE]£60[/STRIKE] Done
    Bill 1 [STRIKE]£105[/STRIKE] Paid
    Bill 2 [STRIKE]£130[/STRIKE] Paid
    Bill 3 [STRIKE]£25[/STRIKE] Paid
    Bill 4 [STRIKE]£100[/STRIKE] Paid
    Bill 5 [STRIKE]£40[/STRIKE] Paid
    Bill 6 [STRIKE]£40[/STRIKE] £10
    Bill 7 £135 (3rd March)

    Expensive month then.
    Birthday gifts (Done)
    School trip DD (Paid)
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    February Goals [/B]

    Debt
    Rent arrears [STRIKE]£3067.28[/STRIKE] £3042.28 £25 Paid
    Council Tax [STRIKE]£1350[/STRIKE] £1325 £25 Paid

    Money
    Grocery £40/£100

    To do list
    [STRIKE]7th - My birthday Eat cake with the kids[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]10th - DD at friends party[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]13th - Stay and play[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]16th - Non uniform £6 (school finishes for half term) [/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]17th - DD birthday & party [/STRIKE]

    2nd (March) - Book day dress up & Stay and play
    2nd (March) - DS birthday
    4th (March) - DS party
    8th (March) - Youngest birthday

    Will add school things in.

    Lots of appointments. At least 4 a week for me and littlest ones.

    Spends planned
    [STRIKE]Buy the Kettle![/STRIKE] :j Done finally
    [STRIKE]Birthday party[/STRIKE] (Done :D)
    Make/Buy sweet cones Done :D
    [STRIKE]DD birthday gift[/STRIKE] Done
    [STRIKE]DS birthday gift[/STRIKE] Done
    [STRIKE]Littlest birthday gift[/STRIKE] Done

    Spends
    £20.82 Card shop online :cool:
    £16.25 Sweet cones
    £6 Unity bands
    £30 Cakes
    £4.40 Coffee
    £1 DD's friends card
    £10 into that card
    £1 Cake sale at school
    £11.50 DD trip
    £45 School shoes
    £26 Pack lunch boxes


    ££ Taxis..
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    Afternoon :)

    Not a NSD.

    £45 on school shoes
    £26 on lunch bags :o So mse :rotfl:

    Spending the day sorting clothes and toys! :cool:

    Hope everyone's well

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Hello. W. You're doing well. How are you feeling?
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • jwil
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    Have a good day x
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • WannabeFree
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    Plodding along.

    The house is making me really fed up :o So I'm sitting on the bed sorting things out in the girls room and then I'll move on to DS.

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
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    Dont do too much.
    Good news on the debt reduction.
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