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Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally

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  • Thanks Nicnak :). I just hope that money can stay in my emergency fund. It depends upon how much we can earn over the next few months. It's so nice to have it there though, such a warm comforting feeling to actually have some savings for once :D,
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • teafor2
    teafor2 Posts: 3,322 Forumite
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    DS's holiday sounds fabulous. Does he tend to stay by himself and stick to his itinerary, or does he sometimes join other people and change his plans?

    I'm just 30p from cashing out again with PA but I've had nothing for a few days now :o xx
  • I think he tends to stay by himself and stick to his itinerary, but he does sometimes socialise with other travellers in the hostel in the evenings.

    How frustrating about PA!
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • I forgot to say that DH rang DS3's letting agency today and they said he'd passed the guarantor checks, goodness knows how, they obviously have very low standards :rotfl:. DH asked about who he was guaranteeing and it sounds like it's the whole house and not just DS3 :eek: so we're not happy about that. If one student defaults then the other students and ALL of the parent guarantors would be chased for the money :mad:. We're waiting for them to send the paperwork so that we can read it, but it sounds like something I would not be very happy to sign :(.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • teafor2
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    I've just replied to you on my diary HHD about what was on DD's lease.

    Well done on passing the checks but personally I'd be really wary of signing a lease like that. In fact I can't imagine any parent being happy to do it. xx
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    edited 13 March 2019 at 8:42PM
    It does seem incredible to think any parent would want to sign a lease like that :eek:. DH has a customer who works in lettings so he's going to ask her what she thinks about it. I definitely don't want to sign it though :(.

    The only way to avoid needing a guarantor is if DS3 pays six months rent in advance, which would be £3000 I think :eek:. He was thinking of asking DS2 if he would lend him the money if we got refused as guarantors. DS2 has got a lot of savings as his business is doing well and his expenses are very low, so he could easily afford to lend his brother the money, if he was willing to.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • jwil
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    That's ridiculous about the guarantor, why would anyone agree to guarantee funds for people they don't know!
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • teafor2
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    jwil wrote: »
    That's ridiculous about the guarantor, why would anyone agree to guarantee funds for people they don't know!

    It does seem an odd stipulation and is quite a gamble. A lot of people wouldn't even be happy to guarantor people they do know :o Hope he manages to get it sorted one way or another. xx
  • EssexHebridean
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    Agree that it's absolutely unreasonable to expect someone to stand as guarantor for people they don't know! Hopefully it'll turn out to not be the case as long as all those sharing have guarantors in place.
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  • Verbatim
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    If you could end up being in the position of guaranteeing everyone in the house it's perhaps because all the guarantors will be "jointly and severally liable", so the landlord/ agent will go after the one/ ones easiest to chase for the whole debt.
    I can't remember the costs that you set out originally for renting with but I remember thinking it sounded expensive. Is his heart set on that particular house or could there be a cheaper option?
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