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Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally

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  • I think looking forward to a new venture is a great idea too.

    Thanks. I definitely need a new focus to help me cope with it all.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Sun_Addict
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    If you've had an idea for a new venture then go for it, especially if you've got nothing to lose. It would give you a focus, I think it's a fab idea xx
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Thanks SA.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • I'm completely exhausted! I'm just waiting for the fourth lot of DS3's clothes to tumble before I can go to bed. I kept finding dirty clothes hidden in his room!

    All his kitchenware is packed, he's taking a bag of books and a suitcase full of clothes and bedding. He's packing his toiletries and computer stuff in the morning. I asked if he was taking any posters, ornaments or photos to make his room more homelike and he said no. Rolls eyes.

    DH is waiting for DS2 to come out of the shower so that he can go to bed!
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • jwil
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    As DS3 is going to be in London, it might be cheaper to travel up by coach rather than driving.

    Good luck with the new business venture, sounds like a good plan to keep you occupied :)
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • beanielou
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    Hope today goes well.
    Stay strong.
    (says she who cried like I would never stop)
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    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou wrote: »
    Hope today goes well.
    Stay strong.
    (says she who cried like I would never stop)

    Good luck for today going well.
    I hope this doesn't seem too pretentious, but I'm including a poem I wrote about my (auburn-haired) daughter.

    Separation

    Are we meeting or parting?
    It is all the same,
    there is never enough time.
    We smile and embrace,
    the warmth of her touch
    is body-piercing.

    My arms remember
    softly breathing weight.
    My lips remember
    infant skin, that special
    place at her temple,
    my kissing spot.

    I trickle wine-red hair
    through my fingers,
    Once we shared
    a single unit of existence.
    It is over, never again
    shall I kiss it better.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,473 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Good luck for today going well.
    I hope this doesn't seem too pretentious, but I'm including a poem I wrote about my (auburn-haired) daughter.

    Separation

    Are we meeting or parting?
    It is all the same,
    there is never enough time.
    We smile and embrace,
    the warmth of her touch
    is body-piercing.

    My arms remember
    softly breathing weight.
    My lips remember
    infant skin, that special
    place at her temple,
    my kissing spot.

    I trickle wine-red hair
    through my fingers,
    Once we shared
    a single unit of existence.
    It is over, never again
    shall I kiss it better.

    Thank you for sharing :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • New venture sounds fab, Hope the uni trip goes well. x
    September 2017 Debt = £25330

    Starting afresh.

    You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x
  • Sun_Addict
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    What a lovely poem Elizabeth :)

    I'm at the opposite side of the spectrum - desperate for my 31 year old DD to move out :rotfl:
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
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