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laura_lau said:ChickenSandwichK said:Hi All, im a first time buyer and have been in the process of trying to buy a flat for the last 9 months!! The issue was the lease (the freeholder is selling the flat) so they had to write a new lease... that has all been resolved. There is no chain the property is vacant and the seller lives next door. I've signed all the contract and other relevant documents and sent my solicitor the deposit.
However - my solicitor is saying we cannot exchange until "we have funds from the lender confirmed / in our account"... I thought the funds from the lender is in place the day before completion?
Any advice on the above would be appreciated!
The lender might have posed some extra conditions before releasing funds (or the conditions posed at offer stage might still be pending verification), as that's my case, they want to see the building insurance policy, which is owned by the freeholder and paid through the service charge by the leaseholders. So until the seller's solicitor provides this info, my solicitor can't have the guarantee from the lender that we will have the funds by X, so she's not exchanging. This is, ultimately, to protect me, it is risky to exchange without having assurances funds will be there, as then you are bound to complete on X, and it's your responsibility even if technically you don't have control on how long it takes the lender to send money. Check with your solicitor if they have already reached out to the lender, and what did the lender say?1 -
rosierunner said:ChickenSandwichK said:Hi All, im a first time buyer and have been in the process of trying to buy a flat for the last 9 months!! The issue was the lease (the freeholder is selling the flat) so they had to write a new lease... that has all been resolved. There is no chain the property is vacant and the seller lives next door. I've signed all the contract and other relevant documents and sent my solicitor the deposit.
However - my solicitor is saying we cannot exchange until "we have funds from the lender confirmed / in our account"... I thought the funds from the lender is in place the day before completion?
Any advice on the above would be appreciated!
Hope you make it before stamp duty deadline!1 -
laura_lau said:CLJ2986 said:laura_lau said:I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?0
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CLJ2986 said:laura_lau said:CLJ2986 said:laura_lau said:I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?
Another excuse would be I saw a call from your office, but obviously, but then they'll say no we didn't, and you will have to say oh ok so it was a call from another day I got confused sorry I'm stressed, but that might turn a bit awkward..
An excuse I used recently, was to say that the agent was under the impression that we were going to exchange today, so you wanted to check if everything was sorted.
Or you can just plainly ask have you got any updates I'm really running out of time here, a line I've also been using quite a bit lately!Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660 -
laura_lau said:AnnexeRegular said:laura_lau said:I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?I can’t focus on anything, and can barely eat anything that isn’t chocolate at the moment. I tried to remain calm and positive but after a week of this daily rollercoaster with the same lack of outcome I just feel sick and don’t know what else I’m supposed to do.I’m lucky in that my solicitor has been brilliant but it doesn’t help when the bottom of the chain is the problem and they keep everyone waiting and stalling at every opportunity. I’m doubting it will ever happen at this rate.I hope you get some good news soon.1
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My solicitor is currently in the process of writing letters to me instead of emailing or calling for even the most inane simple query. It's driving me crazy0
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Reddington85 said:My solicitor is currently in the process of writing letters to me instead of emailing or calling for even the most inane simple query. It's driving me crazyDebt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660 -
So just to say please keep the faith everyone because just when you feel your lowest and most stressed it can happen - we have EXCHANGED!!!Reading all your messages has helped me understand and given me an outlet to share my stress of this rollercoaster process knowing you all understand too. So thank you for that.
I was really beginning to think it wasn’t going to happen but I am proof that it can!So hang in there, all! Your exchange is hopefully just around the corner!8 -
laura_lau said:Reddington85 said:My solicitor is currently in the process of writing letters to me instead of emailing or calling for even the most inane simple query. It's driving me crazy0
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ss2020jd said:So just to say please keep the faith everyone because just when you feel your lowest and most stressed it can happen - we have EXCHANGED!!!Reading all your messages has helped me understand and given me an outlet to share my stress of this rollercoaster process knowing you all understand too. So thank you for that.
I was really beginning to think it wasn’t going to happen but I am proof that it can!So hang in there, all! Your exchange is hopefully just around the corner!
Good one! Excellent.
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