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BountyBlink said:laura_lau said:@BountyBlink I'm definitely considering going down to the agency this afternoon if they don't call me back. I just don't understand why they don't get this solicitor do his job! Surely it's in the EA's interest too? If we don't complete, they don't get their money, and even if they get another buyer who knows how long it will be before they complete, considering how bad and unresponsive the seller's solicitor is! My solicitor is not great, but a combination with the awful solicitor the seller chose, is really explosive! The only hold-up in my entire process is just the awful and unresponsive solicitors!
If that doesn't work, I might also pop a note to the seller's door. I have her address obviously, from the papers, and she lives pretty close to the property. I really wonder if she's even aware that her solicitor is useless, because from what I know he might have been telling her that it's my fault!!! I hate middle-men with all my heart! Have you ever done it @BountyBlink? How did they react? I don't want to pass for the creepy stalking buyerDebt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
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stressedout45 said:Oh my God I need to have a rant here, I’m a bit frustrated about something that happened this morning!!!!I’m sitting in the hairdressers having my colour done, and check my phone, and I have an email from my estate agents saying “Comgratulations on reaching exchange of contracts.” I got a sudden surge of excitedness thinking wow, are we really there already?! (last thing I had heard was that the searches requested on this place buy our buyers are due back any day now, and the bottom of chain searches are due back today, and then there will be the inevitable few weeks or so of enquiries as a result of the searches.)
It was too noisy in the hairdressers for me to make a phone call so I had an agonising half an hour of waiting until I got out the salon and could give my estate agents a call.Sadly, it was an error on their part 😢 when I checked the email, it was from one of their other branches. They were very apologetic and said that they would get it rectified and would tell the other branch what they had done.Aaaaaaaaaagh!!!Anyway -
sorry I just need to get all that out. Good luck to all expecting exchange imminently!Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
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I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/663 -
Hi All, im a first time buyer and have been in the process of trying to buy a flat for the last 9 months!! The issue was the lease (the freeholder is selling the flat) so they had to write a new lease... that has all been resolved. There is no chain the property is vacant and the seller lives next door. I've signed all the contract and other relevant documents and sent my solicitor the deposit.
However - my solicitor is saying we cannot exchange until "we have funds from the lender confirmed / in our account"... I thought the funds from the lender is in place the day before completion?
Any advice on the above would be appreciated!0 -
laura_lau said:I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?1
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ChickenSandwichK said:Hi All, im a first time buyer and have been in the process of trying to buy a flat for the last 9 months!! The issue was the lease (the freeholder is selling the flat) so they had to write a new lease... that has all been resolved. There is no chain the property is vacant and the seller lives next door. I've signed all the contract and other relevant documents and sent my solicitor the deposit.
However - my solicitor is saying we cannot exchange until "we have funds from the lender confirmed / in our account"... I thought the funds from the lender is in place the day before completion?
Any advice on the above would be appreciated!
The lender might have posed some extra conditions before releasing funds (or the conditions posed at offer stage might still be pending verification), as that's my case, they want to see the building insurance policy, which is owned by the freeholder and paid through the service charge by the leaseholders. So until the seller's solicitor provides this info, my solicitor can't have the guarantee from the lender that we will have the funds by X, so she's not exchanging. This is, ultimately, to protect me, it is risky to exchange without having assurances funds will be there, as then you are bound to complete on X, and it's your responsibility even if technically you don't have control on how long it takes the lender to send money. Check with your solicitor if they have already reached out to the lender, and what did the lender say?Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660 -
laura_lau said:I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?1
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ChickenSandwichK said:Hi All, im a first time buyer and have been in the process of trying to buy a flat for the last 9 months!! The issue was the lease (the freeholder is selling the flat) so they had to write a new lease... that has all been resolved. There is no chain the property is vacant and the seller lives next door. I've signed all the contract and other relevant documents and sent my solicitor the deposit.
However - my solicitor is saying we cannot exchange until "we have funds from the lender confirmed / in our account"... I thought the funds from the lender is in place the day before completion?
Any advice on the above would be appreciated!1 -
AnnexeRegular said:laura_lau said:I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660 -
CLJ2986 said:laura_lau said:I also wanted to add, I've barely been able to focus on work today. And most days. If this continues for much longer, I might not have a salary anymore to afford the mortgage before completion!!! Anyone else who can relate?Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660
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