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Mums ran up debt in my name and won't pay

Chars97
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Hey,
2 years ago my mother went behind my back and gout out a number of catolgues in my name, and maxed out all of them. I only found out last year, when she wes very apologetic (she's blacklisted herself btw so turned on me) and promised to pay them. It's now 2 years later and I've been warned that bailifs are after
My possessions, as I'm only on a minimum wage job and I can't afford to pay all of my mums debt in my name; even though I know I shouldn't have it anyway!! As I'm a hard worker, I'm actually a apprentice who works 45 hours a week, and have intentions of eventually qualifying and a few years down the line getting a mortgage. However when I found this out my whole life dreams were crushed, as when even I tried to apply for a credit card just to help boost my credit rating I wasn't even accepted. My mother has no remorse and doesn't care for what she's done, but also I DO NOT want her to go prison for this, as in my heart I just couldn't let that happen. So I need to try and find a way to get my name out of this equation, is there anyway possible. I'm just a 19 year old in desperate need of help!!!!!
Thanks in advance xxx
2 years ago my mother went behind my back and gout out a number of catolgues in my name, and maxed out all of them. I only found out last year, when she wes very apologetic (she's blacklisted herself btw so turned on me) and promised to pay them. It's now 2 years later and I've been warned that bailifs are after
My possessions, as I'm only on a minimum wage job and I can't afford to pay all of my mums debt in my name; even though I know I shouldn't have it anyway!! As I'm a hard worker, I'm actually a apprentice who works 45 hours a week, and have intentions of eventually qualifying and a few years down the line getting a mortgage. However when I found this out my whole life dreams were crushed, as when even I tried to apply for a credit card just to help boost my credit rating I wasn't even accepted. My mother has no remorse and doesn't care for what she's done, but also I DO NOT want her to go prison for this, as in my heart I just couldn't let that happen. So I need to try and find a way to get my name out of this equation, is there anyway possible. I'm just a 19 year old in desperate need of help!!!!!
Thanks in advance xxx
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Easy. Call the police and report the crime. Simples.0
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As above. Call the police she's comitted fraud. I highly doubt she will to to prison. She will probably just get a caution and to pay a fine and costs. IF you reprt it I imagine you'd be able to get the creditors to stop chasing you due to it being a crime that's not your fault.0
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She can only receive a caution if she admits the offence at the Police Station and there will not be any fine or costs. Only a court can impose that penalty.0
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1. Who told you baliffs are after your possessions?
2. How did your mother open credit accounts in your name 2 years ago when you were only 17?0 -
It's not your problem if *someone used your name*
Call the police and tell your mother to simply do one.
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As above. Call the police she's comitted fraud. I highly doubt she will to to prison.She will probably just get a caution and to pay a fine and costs0
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I would be turning my mum straight in.0
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Go to the citizens advice bureau. Under the age of 18 you cannot usually be held to have made a contract apart from for things needed like your food, shelter or housing.What is this life if, full of care, we have no time to stand and stare0
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Just a thought here before you go to the police, What did your Mum actually order from these catalogues? Did you benefit in any way from these orders? Presumably she will deny it and say you ordered the things for yourself and are trying to blame her, Were the items ordered more suitable for use by her or you?0
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Step 1: Obtain copies of all 3 of your credit reports.
The free versions to check your credit files are below:
Experian: https://www.moneysavingexpert.com/creditclub
Call Credit: https://www.noddle.co.uk
Equifax: https://www.clearscore.com
Step 2: Report ID theft to police in order to obtain a crime reference number:
http://www.actionfraud.police.uk/fraud_protection/identity_fraud
Step 3: Write to all lenders on your files who your mum has taken out accounts in your name and inform them that
a) the account was taken out fraudulently by ID theft
b) supply them with the crime reference number so that they know you have reported it to the police and if they need to pursue costs they know who to contact
c) Ask them to remove the accounts from your files
Step 4: Sign up for CIFAS protective registration to prevent your mum from doing this again in the future.
https://www.cifas.org.uk/pr_for_individualsI'm a Board Guide on the Credit Cards, Loans, Credit Files & Ratings boards. I'm a volunteer to help the boards run smoothly, and I can move and merge threads there. Any views are mine and not the official line of moneysavingexpert.com0
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