feel so stupid

glosoli

No one here can magically solve your social difficulties.

No one here can magic up some jobs for you in your "small town".

No one here can get a car for you, or a girlfriend, or change your weight.

Does anyone else know what to say?

lovinituk

Why is still in the employment sub-forum?! It should be in DT it's such a bizarre thread!

sam_m

Every time i think i am getting better i just look in the mirror and say im stupid, i should be doing better i mean there are things that i have done that i would never have done before but i aways say I need to be doing better to beat my stepbrother for example

1. Im getting distinctions and Merits on all of my Assignments at college-Well my stepbrother is at uni so again he is better

2. I volunteer at my local castle, volunteer at a half marathon in my local town but i say to my self my stepsister has a job and did the same thing but with the London marathon

3. I was proud of myself for actually making the bed on my own the other day but then i give myself a big slap and shout at myself to grow up

4. I spoke to a girl at college the other day but then again said to myself why should i be proud of that when my stepbrother actually has a girlfriend.

My GP says i should have more confidence in my ability but it is difficult

sam_m

Bravepants wrote: »

I don't know why he wants a car...he can't drive!

Imagine what he'd do to the driving examiner if he/she fails him!

Yeah i probably would fail because im too stupid to actually achieve anything

glosoli

There are always going to be people you perceive to be better than you.

My brother gets £65,000 a year, and I only get around £25,000.

My sister is in a relationship, I am not.

My brother drives, I don't.

My friend can cook, I can't.

My other friend can run 96 miles in a day, I cant.

It's just the way the world spins.

Bravepants

lovinituk wrote: »

Why is still in the employment sub-forum?! It should be in DT it's such a bizarre thread!

Not as bizarre as tearing up a signed photograph of Cheryl Cole, and scratching all your DVDs in a fit of anger. And THEN asking the MSE forums if he should spend what money he has in the bank to replace all the DVDs he scratched incase he invites a girl back and she wants to watch a movie! Eh Sam?

sam_m

Bravepants wrote: »

Not as bizarre as tearing up a signed photograph of Cheryl Cole, and scratching all your DVDs in a fit of anger. And THEN asking the MSE forums if he should spend what money he has in the bank to replace all the DVDs he scratched incase he invites a girl back and she wants to watch a movie! Eh Sam?

Look, that is when i felt worthless and not fit to actually own those things, i felt i actually didn't deserve the nice things i had because of how disgusting i am, i haven't had those thoughts for a while now of feeling worthless, just upset and crying most nights

elsien

Bravepants, if the OP is genuine which is entirely possible, you're really not helping. Report it if you feel it necessary but baiting the OP for a response isn't ok.

DCFC79

Be friends with girls at college, speak to them, arrange to do something with others on your course.

You need to understand that there's always someone who is better than you or has something you don't.

sam_m

yeah but everytime i think im getting somewhere with females its like one step forward and then 10 steps back, i aways think why should i be proud of speaking to a female when my stepbrother has a girlfriend