feel so stupid

Placitasgirl

There is a saying that goes "if you change nothing, nothing will change". I'm sorry you seem so unable to accept the honest opinions, help and advice many of the members here have offered. Every suggestion is rebuffed and thrown back with a negative. it's becoming tiresome.

I really don't think there is anything more to be gained by continuing this thread so I will say farewell and wish you luck.

sam_m

lovinituk wrote: »

It's all nonsense repeated over and over and over. Sadly there seems to be plenty of people here that keep enabling you.

What do you mean it is nonsense.

If you are actually so clever tell me what you would actually do to turn my life around, i am not a nasty piece of work, all i want to do is change my self for the better

DCFC79

sam_m wrote: »

Well its what i want, i don't care what other people might think, i don't want to be sitting here in 20 years time getting fatter and fatter thinking i haven't tried in my life

So try then.

Try and get a job.

sam_m

Placitasgirl wrote: »

There is a saying that goes "if you change nothing, nothing will change". I'm sorry you seem so unable to accept the honest opinions, help and advice many of the members here have offered. Every suggestion is rebuffed and thrown back with a negative. it's becoming tiresome.

I really don't think there is anything more to be gained by continuing this thread so I will say farewell and wish you luck.

I do accept the honest opinions. I have tried SO much and have tried every ones advice

I spent a whole week sending my CV into everywhere that i can in my local town and all came back to me saying they were not looking, i need more voluntary experience or that i wasn't the right person for the job, that is what they told me when i phoned them up and asked why i hadn't heard back from them.

prosaver

sam_m wrote: »

Well its what i want,

no its isnt youve been brainwashed by the media,

sam_m

DCFC79 wrote: »

So try then.

Try and get a job.

What do you think i've been trying to do for the past month. The fact is that no company actually wants to employ me in a small town that i live in

DCFC79

lovinituk wrote: »

It's all nonsense repeated over and over and over. Sadly there seems to be plenty of people here that keep enabling you.

I like to give people benefit of the doubt, maybe I give them too much.

Im beginning to realise maybe its a lost cause.

Bravepants

Maybe he's not a troll...maybe he's a bot! Some artifical intelligence software that some clown has set loose on MSE. Hang on let me try this...

"Would you like a game of global thermo-nuclear war?"

sam_m

prosaver wrote: »

no its isnt youve been brainwashed by the media,

Look mate, i have not been brainwashed by the media. I have witnessed my stepbrother kiss and hug his gf on new years eve, know that they watch films together and what do i get i have nothing, i was stood to the spot like glue wanting someone to kiss and hug me, wanting someone to think i was lovable.

prosaver

sam_m wrote: »

What do you think i've been trying to do for the past month. The fact is that no company actually wants to employ me in a small town that i live in

so whats the problem?