feel so stupid

Sncjw

If your 24 surely it's time to start thinking for your self to some degree. Do your parents not help you with finding a job

DCFC79

sam_m wrote: »

yes i know that but at least the other people applying for the job would have a partner, a car, popular with their family and have not got the slightest form of autism that the bloody government thinks i am actually ok.

I need to look good, feel good and be happy thats all i want in life

How do you know the other applicants would have a partner, a car, popular with family. Yes they might have all that but you dont know.

prosaver

sam_m wrote: »

So what should i focus on at the moment then

hey up, what do you want in life?

sam_m

Sncjw wrote: »

If your 24 surely it's time to start thinking for your self to some degree. Do your parents not help you with finding a job

I am thinking about my self, why do you think i actually want to turn my life around, and no i wouldn't even think about asking my mum and my stepfather into helping me find a job, my stepsister did not need help, my stepbrother doesn't need help and i don't need help from them either

sam_m

prosaver wrote: »

hey up, what do you want in life?

A job, a car, more money, a partner, kids in the future, a family

not much to ask for

bugslet

sam_m wrote: »

Yes and i said sorry for saying that. Im not lying, the only reason why i can't get a job is because the people that i apply for won't actually give me a chance

I'm an employer, when I take someone on, besides whatever qualifications and/or experience I need, I also want someone of a pleasant disposition that will fit in with everyone else and not be miserable. As an additional, if anyone even has the hint of 'you're lucky to have me' attitude, they'd not get through a full interview. Even if you were the most brilliant heart surgeon, it would be a terrible attitude.

All we have to go on is how you come across on here, but if you are like this in real life, you need to look at yourself.


Ultimately you are where you are now because of decisions you made a year, two years ago; where you are in a years time, will be down to what decisions you take now.

Stop blaming everyone else, you a tent the employee catch of the century,just get on with being better than you are and this time next year you will have travelled a huge distance Personally.

sam_m

lovinituk wrote: »

Not this car crash again!!! How is this allowed to carry on?! MSE has some very odd moderation.

What do you mean. Why just post this, if you don't want to help don't post on the thread

lincroft1710

sam_m wrote: »

2. never had a gf before-negative
3. cant drive-negative
4. cant cook-negative
5. dont go to uni-negative

2. Many people don't have gf/bf until they're older than 24. Stop focusing on what your stepbrother and stepsister are doing.

3. I know several people who didn't learn to drive until they were in their 30s/40s.

4. Not difficult to follow a few simple recipes. Be patient you may fail the first time, but don't give up.

5. Do you know that most people in the UK didn't go to uni. I didn't go and in my job was at a higher grade than 4 people who had been to uni.

Sncjw

Well the way your acting surely help from them would be beneficial. Asking for help isn't a weakness. Just because your siblings didn't ask for help doesn't mean you shouldn't.

Thinking for your self different to thinking about yourself. Thinking for yourselves is making your own dewcions on what to do not asking people what to do each day

Bravepants

lovinituk wrote: »

Not this car crash again!!! How is this allowed to carry on?! MSE has some very odd moderation.

Some people are of the opinion that he is a troll! Hard to imagine though eh?