Should I just give up?

feater

Thanks all. This has really helped me get things into perspective as I have been pandering to his moods and being very understanding about his problems, maybe too understanding. Over 6 months without S*x and all of the associated affection and I still wasn't perfect or patient enough.

gonna concentrate on me and have booked a spa holiday in Spain for a week after my birthday so in 3 weeks time will be being pampered and hopefully fogetting about him!

Chollita

Do we have the same ex? LOL. You can never please some people, all you can do is get away.

Enjoy your trip to Spain. That's where I chose to move to (oh, the bliss of being able to make my own decisions!)

feater

You never know! Been told I'm too independant and self sufficient.. then when I do let my guard down and ask for help they never let me forget it.:mad:

Well I'm not moving just taking a break after a very stressfull year.. In fact looking back think I should be the one who's depressed not him!

Chollita

Well enjoy the trip! Do PM me if you feel the need, but sounds like you'll be ok. We really don't need men like that dragging us down. Onwards and upwards!

feater

Thanks Chollita. Will do.