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Separating- can husband walk in house whenever he likes?

dobs
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Hi my husband is meant to be moving out in a few days, am staying with our children and im going to be paying the mortgage. He keeps saying he can come and go as he pleases as its half his house as well, but I will feel really uncomfortable if I have to worry he could walk in the house whenever he gets the urge. Also am I legally allowed to put a chain on the door? I just hate the thought that he could come and go anytime he feels like it, thank you
grocery challenge jan 17 £ / 350.00
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Sorry but as owner you cannot deny him entry unless you obtain an injunction.I am not a cat (But my friend is)0
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Buy him out. It's not just your house, it's his too0
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Alter Ego is complletely correct.
It works both ways in all fairness. How would you feel if he locked you out.....make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
and we will never, ever return.0 -
Can I put a chain on the door though? I'd let him in I just don't want him walking in at any time without warninggrocery challenge jan 17 £ / 350.000
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I don't want to lock him out but he won't be living here and I hate the thought I could be home in bed or something and he walks in unannouncedgrocery challenge jan 17 £ / 350.000
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I think a chain would be OK as you'll be living alone now. Won't stop him when you're out though.I am not a cat (But my friend is)0
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When we separated before and I left the house I never walked in, I always knocked and waitedgrocery challenge jan 17 £ / 350.000
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I will be here with the children for a while before we sell upgrocery challenge jan 17 £ / 350.000
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This may have useful information
http://england.shelter.org.uk/__data/assets/pdf_file/0020/23393/ShelterGuide_RelationshipBreakdown.pdf0 -
If you'd had a chain on the door before separating, would you now remove it?
As long as you let him in, there is no harm in having a chain on the door when you are in the house. If challenged, simply say it is to make you feel safer from the world in general.2022. 2% MF challenge. £730/30000
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