Trying To Concieve

Staciep88

As others have said - really sorry to hear this *Hugs*

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OP- Do you think its worth me getting a first response testing kit as these can tell from 6 days before your due?

galvanizersbaby

Big hugs for you searching me - try and stay positive x

Staciep - if it will put your mind at rest you could get a testing kit - it sounds as though you would like to x

searching_me

thank you feeling abit better now ive had a cuddle from my DD although she doesnt know why my feeling low she just knows mummy needed a hug... im gonna have to try again its so hard sometimes knowing that if everything was ok then i would of been about 6 month pg o well cant really think like that just fingers crossed for next month baby dust to you all xx

shelly

Stacie. If you can wait a few days I'd recommend getting pg kits from these guys.... http://www.accessdiagnostics.co.uk/acatalog/Early_home_pregnancy_test_offer.html


They do other types of pg test but these are the cheapest and they are also early detection ones.

They have very quick delivery which I *think* is now free.

HTH

shelly

searching_me wrote: »

thank you feeling abit better now ive had a cuddle from my DD although she doesnt know why my feeling low she just knows mummy needed a hug... im gonna have to try again its so hard sometimes knowing that if everything was ok then i would of been about 6 month pg o well cant really think like that just fingers crossed for next month baby dust to you all xx

Hi searching. Sorry you're feeling low.
I saw a friend a couple of weeks ago with her eldest daughter, we were newly pregnant together 4 years ago and would have been due within a couple of weeks of eachother.
Its hard when I see her because then I just think about what should have been.

I do believe that things happen for a reason but it doesn't make it any easier to deal with on rough days.

Chin up chuck, it does get easier.....she says as she sits crying silent tears

Rosie_Bud

searching_me wrote: »

thank you feeling abit better now ive had a cuddle from my DD although she doesnt know why my feeling low she just knows mummy needed a hug... im gonna have to try again its so hard sometimes knowing that if everything was ok then i would of been about 6 month pg o well cant really think like that just fingers crossed for next month baby dust to you all xx

Ah sweetheart I am sorry you have been feeling so low. It is doubly hard when you are thinking of the "could have beens". Glad you are feeling a bit better now, bless your DD you can tell she is a girl she already has the sixth sense of peoples needs!

I know it doesn't help but chin up love, you will get there soon.

Rosie Bud xx

ginvzt

I have received my TCOYF book! Now, just need to read it! It is very thick!!!!!

Rosie_Bud

Well after the onset of my first sight of EWCM this morning, when panic stations came about, I had to come home for lunchtime delight, just in case you understand! lol.

I know you are meant to be BDing every 2-3 days but we are going for the overkill method this month! TMI, I know!

Had my blood test yesterday so hopefully things will show up as being ok, but if I had the blood test yesterday and I only saw EWCM today, would that show up that I am ovulating? I assume you don't get EWCM if you don't ovulate? But then I don't know because surely you shouldn't get periods if you don't ovulate, gosh this is confusing !

All very confusing on my husbands job front, now we don't know if he will be going away to work or not. Think that is why we are trying so hard this month. Am I too late to try to lengthen my luteal phase this month? Its just that if I ovulated today and AF is due next week, that will not be long enough. Don't know if I have left this too late though. Just gotta hope that implantation takes place and AF doesn't show her horrid face!

Fingers crossed, baby dust for all and lots of love just in case it helps!

Rosie Bud xx

Rosie_Bud

shelly wrote: »

Hi searching. Sorry you're feeling low.
I saw a friend a couple of weeks ago with her eldest daughter, we were newly pregnant together 4 years ago and would have been due within a couple of weeks of eachother.
Its hard when I see her because then I just think about what should have been.

I do believe that things happen for a reason but it doesn't make it any easier to deal with on rough days.

Chin up chuck, it does get easier.....she says as she sits crying silent tears

Aw shelly hun, ((((hugs)))) for you too sweetie.

My thoughts are with you.

Rosie Bud xx

searching_me

yer shes really good when im feeling down or not well bless her its just odd when i was pg with her i didnt know til i was 6 months gone but with trying for the another one its been so hard either its ending in early miscarriage or ectopic im trying not to think to hard about it but as just like you guys on here i want another one so badly and when my DD is the only one in her class without a sibling and she asks why not i just say we're trying and smile it off ... i know you were talking about acouple of books on here but cant remember there names what were they? also i was looking at pregnacare conception tablets do you think they are a good idea or should i just give it time? the docs wont bother with us because im 23 my partner is nearly 25 and coz we got pregnant, although it ended in ectopic they said that we at least got pregnant and that is a plus (shows they've never been through one themselves) so its just getting to me xxx
p.s there's no need for silent tears were all here for a shoulder to lean on xxx