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Husband refuses to put my name on the deed of the house

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  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    Meyor wrote: »
    What makes you so sure of this?

    Because it's the most basic legal standing of the marriage contract.
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  • DavidF
    DavidF Posts: 498 Forumite
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    Don't think op has got the hang of this marriage business lol
    and all my worldly goods i thee endow
    You SHOULD have done a prenup before marriage. Too late now your only other option now is to silence him lol
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  • peachyprice
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    Guest101 wrote: »
    The one out of dozens that to some degree agrees with your opinion, so that's the one you'll listen to.. :)

    Funny thing is, the last paragraph of the only post OP agrees with actually sides with her OH. :rotfl:
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  • Money_maker
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    Meyor wrote: »
    Living together for 4 years, married for just over a year. Again we are not talking about divorce.

    This changes things slightly. Now would be a really good time to try to draw up a post-nup agreement as you've only been married for a year and you could protect your assets.
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  • Mojisola
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    Money_maker wrote: »
    This changes things slightly. Now would be a really good time to try to draw up a post-nup agreement as you've only been married for a year and you could protect your assets.

    AIUI, the years spent living together would be taken into account so this probably wouldn't be considered a short marriage.
  • POPPYOSCAR
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    Guest101 wrote: »
    The one out of dozens that to some degree agrees with your opinion, so that's the one you'll listen to.. :)



    I did not think they were agreeing with her as they thought they should have both properties in joint names or have one each.
  • Meyor
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    Mojisola wrote: »
    AIUI, the years spent living together would be taken into account so this probably wouldn't be considered a short marriage.

    So living together now counts as a marriage?
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    I did not think they were agreeing with her as they thought they should have both properties in joint names or have one each.

    Ye like I say, to some degree. The OP is not aware of things really.


    - makes me wonder about her tenants and if she's up to date with LL responsibilities?
  • Money_maker
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    Mojisola wrote: »
    AIUI, the years spent living together would be taken into account so this probably wouldn't be considered a short marriage.

    I didn't know that they took these into account, Mojisola. In any event, I can see the rest of this marriage being fairly short lived, particularly when the OP realises that she does indeed have to share everything with her DH. I rather suspect that the story of the relationship itself between her, her DH and the children would be very enlightening.
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  • Guest101
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    Meyor wrote: »
    So living together now counts as a marriage?

    If you marry at some stage, then yes.


    Living together for 10 years, married for 1 - not a short marriage.


    Living together for 6 months, married for 6 months - Short marriage
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