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Weekly Flylady Thread 12th October 2015

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  • ionafan
    ionafan Posts: 4,827 Forumite
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    Op went ahead, Mum still in recovery though, hoping it is just a bed issue.
    ...
    May hospital visit later depending on how Mum is.

    So glad to hear that she has had her op - wishing her a speedy recovery, and calming vibes to you, Dusty x

    I have had a phonecall this afternoon from one of my nephews to say that his father, my 88-yo half-brother (the one who was in hospital and then a rehabilitation centre for the elderly for several months earlier this year) died peacefully early this morning. He was glad to be at home again, and he and his wife had enjoyed a visit to a local garden centre on Saturday, but then he started feeling ill on Sunday and was admitted to hospital yesterday afternoon. He had a good life, an interesting job and a longlasting marriage - 66 years - and they have been able to build up many good memories of places they've visited and things they've done. He was a lot older than me, and for a long time I felt that he was very distant, even critical of me, but in recent years we have got to know each other better and he was able to tell me a lot about our father. A sad loss...

    I haven't really done much off my list yet. The food at the SW Christmas party was excellent and I've had a long chat with my friend this afternoon :D
  • mrs-moneypenny
    mrs-moneypenny Posts: 15,519 Forumite
    edited 13 October 2015 at 5:46PM
    Glad your mums op went ahead today dusty, hope she gets a bed soon and has a full recovery. Hugs to you both.

    So sorry to hear your sad news Iona, my deepest condolences to you and your DH

    Kaz glad that cat got on OK at the vet and all is well in feline world

    Just in from work so having cuppa and catch up then going to start on food and bedroom, it's not looking too bad as I did the floordrobe etc this morning.

    Just had a neighbour pop round with some wool for me to knit up for her - 4 more baby cardis.
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  • Dustykitten
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    Ionafan sorry to hear of your loss. I'm glad he had a great life but it still stings.

    Hoovered
    Fed mogs
    Done DS3's dinner

    Going to washup and mop. Mum still not on the ward but due to bed issues, she is ready to go up there.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • kazwookie
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    Iona sorry for your loss

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  • bossymoo
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    Aww sorry to hear your news iona xx

    Glad your mum is through the op ok, dusty xx

    Kinda bushed here. Voice improving but cough still in place. Worked from 6.30, stopped at Mr A on way home for fridgey items, collected littlies then took DD for her flu wotnot. Finally got home to make tea and sort them out for bed.

    Am now bushed so will just clear up after tea and call it a night. WFH tomorrow so that feels less stressful although I appear to have inherited a godawful job today - we'll see how it pans out. Out whole team is almost diverted to focus on this one thing to the exclusion of all others. Until someone asks what happened to the others <rollseyes>

    DD thought it was a good idea earlier to practice a pirouette while holding a frube :eek: so I've had the mop out already. Little beastie. I will let her off cos she was very brave at the docs and she did some very nice reading tonight ;)

    I knew I would start to feel frazzled with all these weekends away. And I'm piling weight back on. But as of tonight's shop I'm back on the wagon, on the plan and on my way!

    So there :p
    Bossymoo

    Away with the fairies :beer:
  • huston_kw
    huston_kw Posts: 552 Forumite
    If it's gone it's done, manage to sort through all but under the kitchen sink unit today.. I've binned / bagged up for charity loads today, nothing falls out when I open my cupboards

    Magical monday - barnacled bathroom and sociable study/pc area
    level one...Done
    level two... Done
    level three...
    Clean shower screen/curtain if you have one/if required
    Clean/wash the brushes/dust box/filters on the vacuum cleaner!!!! .. make sure they are completely dry before using it though.. I don’t want anyone electrocuted!!
    Extra mission:
    • Wipe the skirtings, door and window frames in these rooms
    • Wash your bathroom mats, nets, clean blind/curtains etc Need to do bathrrom blind
    • Pull out the pc and desk and clear under and behind it.. how much money did you find? Clean windows, hang up clean nets and draught-proof curtains and any table cloths/throws or other dust and grot gathering bits of fabric!
    • Wipe sticky and dirty marks off the walls and doors
    Tantalising Tuesday ~ Masterful Master Bedroom & Loopy Landing
    Level One... DONE

    Level Two...
    Dust surfaces & make sure no cobwebs..
    Vacuum mattress before replacing with fresh linen.. do you need that winter duvet yet?
    Level Three...
    Vacuum floors in bedroom and on landing
    Sort one area of clothes or linen storage making sure only what should be in there is, anything that's had it's day or doesn't belong there is removed
    Clear a hotspot., or spend 15 minutes clearing one.
    Extra tasks list:

    • Put away those summer clothes from someones cupboard and get out the winter woollies.. don’t store anything that is past its best! Make a list of things you need to buy!!
    • Clean windows in these rooms
    • Check house for places where draughts are getting in.. doors, windows etc and see if there are ways to stop it!
    • Clean out that airing cupboard!!!!!! get rid of those things you don't need.. use dead towels as cleaning cloths etc.. be ruthless!!!! you REALLY don't need that 'thing' you've saved for 10 years.. 'just in case'
  • Evening all,

    Sorry to hear about your half brother Iona xx
    Dusty glad the op went ok.

    I've actually done well today, considering not much time available. Also parents evening went very well. They honestly are different children in school. 'Lovely, polite, hard working' really?!?

    Now off to take doggy out for an evening constitutional, see you all later. Xxxx


    [STRIKE]x Dw
    x wm
    x Make beds
    x Worktops
    x Swish and swipe
    x Kitchen floor[/STRIKE]
    - Hhi
    [STRIKE]x Empty a bin[/STRIKE]
    - Birthday present dd1
    - Plant those new plants
    - Birthday present dad
    - Drop bags off at charity shop
    [STRIKE]x Clean toilet, sink, shower, bath
    x Clear clutter from desk
    x Dust and wipe desk
    x Wipe keyboards etc[/STRIKE]
    - Wash brushes and filters on hoover
    x [STRIKE]Clean bathroom radiator[/STRIKE]
    - Sort out passports
    [STRIKE]x Wipe bathroom skirtings, door and window frames[/STRIKE]
    - Cancel direct debit
    x [STRIKE]Wipe dirty marks from bathroom wall[/STRIKE]
    - Change electric and gas suppliers
    - Send local paper to mum
    - Master bedroom bedding
    - Dust and deweb mb and landing
    - Clear floor mb and landing
    - Tax car
    - Hoover mb and landing
    - 15 min hotspot clear mb landing
    - 27 fling boogie
    - Clean bedroom window
    - Audit hats gloves scarves
    - Flowers and wine for friend
  • bossymoo
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    Ha biscuit that will be me tomorrow: "she's quiet and listens well???" Huh? Lol she never stops for breath at home heheh
    Bossymoo

    Away with the fairies :beer:
  • Just checking in quickly. Been out with DS1 which was nice, although we had to rush back to take DS2 to footie.

    Condolences Ionafan. Sounds like a peaceful end to a good life, glad you had the chance to get to know him better before it was too late.

    Tired tonight. Bit of telly then bed soon.
  • pigpen
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    Iona.. much love.. sounds like he had a very blessed life <3

    DS3 has an infected cyst on his left temple which has swollen his eye shut and very painful hopefully ABs will kick in quick.. 3 hypo's today as a result of infection.

    50% code and 10% cashback.. chunk of Christmas shopping done!
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