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Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2
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Melly Try and cut yourself a bit of slack right now . It's the weekend so nothing is likely to happen until Monday .
You have sorted the reconsideration , tackled healthy minds and the plans are now in place for your oh and to take some of the load off your shoulders . You are still chasing other roles . Stressing over what is unlikely to happen in the next two days is only going to wear you down even more .
You can't banish the worry but try to do something to get out this weekend , even a drive to the nearest park , anything to break this cycle of constant anxiety .
Think about it or we may have to sing at you '
Have a hug
Love pollyIt is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.
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Hi Faerie I'm trying yet again to catch up on posts .
I am so pleased today went well and looks positive . Reading your reply to my questions earlier I have no doubt that with the right support and the correct facts being given you have a very strong case for suitable housing .
Your physical health conditions will be well documented . Regarding bpd and severe anxiety there will be copious notes regardless of not being in the system recently . It is very common for patients to fall through the net regardless of the good work done there are also shortcomings due to lack of funding and unavailability of some services .
With borderline this can cause a massive downward spiral .
Aside from your physical health record the most precious thing right now is you have a borderline diagnosis . It is a very difficult one to receive .It is known as the one they don't like to give as resources are very limited and as you have found it is hard to access the right treatment .
I hope things will go well apart from the conditions you are living in and the fear of eviction , you have been effectivly blackmailed for five years into putting up with unfit for habitation conditions and paying for the dubious honour .
polly xIt is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.
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Belated thanks to Elsian for the imfomation for Was re fluctuating needs .
Huge thanks for the gitdog get to bed post . I think we all need a gitdog in our lives . have you considered cloning ? I hope you feel a bit better now .
Apologies to Faerie for the dreadful punctuation and spelling in my post to her . It's Friday and I'm so tired .
pollyIt is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.
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Polly, you do say the nicest things sometimes. Thank you.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.0 -
I like singing polly
Figured out why I am a bundle of angst
That would be hormones0 -
Moo - the job situation is not unheard of, so I would see it as a positive, but assume you have not got the role you applied for and continue looking. This has happened to my best friend twice, where she went for an interview and they could see her in a role they had in their heads for future development - both times, it took ages as the roles were "in the pipeline" type of roles with nothing officially agreed on them..........so don't panic in terms of them liking you - I think it sounds that they genuinely like you, however, it might be more pertinent to say to the Agency that whilst you are very pleased with the feedback, you are looking for a role to start asap as you are currently out of work and unless they can give you a timeframe for a potential offer, you will be continuing to pursue other roles? In that instance, would they offer you the role you went for, with a view to a change to the new role when they have made up their minds?0
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I told the agency today that I'm looking for a now start and will contract if have too as I need to get back in the game.
I'm fairly sure their going to move the person who's currently covering one of the sites they're giving me to the one I went to the interview for its new and has less trouble.
I also as the MD wants to speak to me get the feeling the new role will report directly to them.
It's lovely and everything but want money now ta
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Evening Shipmates,
Oh dear seems to be a lot of hugs,squishes and handshakes that are needed today. They are free and for nothing.
Well Land registry stuff arrived today which was all fine and dandy. Apart from I went out earlier and only just got back. So no chance to get it off today. A bit of confusion. As they sent husbands paper work to this address.
Talking of cleaning well. I noticed the other day on my husband lino it has some sort indented pattern on it. And its black in the indents. So got some general purpose cleaner and a scrubbing brush and cleaned the kitchen floor on my hands and knees this afternoon. its looks like new lino and the water in the mop bucket was minging. it was black :eek:
I know he has a cleaner and she does mops the floors every week. but its so ingrained that a mop would never get it out.
I am inhailing the contents of a box of lidl honey nut cornflakes. Oh well never mind.
Again hugs, handshakes and squishes to all that need them. I will try and get I am not a turtle in to a conversation with husband tomorrow as he needs to sign a form for LR. And then I can send them off. And it should be job done :j
Yours
CalleyHope for everything and expect nothing!!!
Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz
If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin0 -
And I inhaled a Boost bar.
Question: When did jobs become roles?
Chat-up Line? Me? No fear!
I am not a turtle it is, then!
Code, can you give it to me phonetically? I don't know how to pronounce Portuguese.(I just lurve spiders!)
INFJ(Turbulent).
Her Greenliness Baroness Pyxis of the Alphabetty, Pinnacle of Peadom and Official Brainbox
Founder Member: 'WIMPS ANONYMOUS' and 'VICTIMS of the RANDOM HEDGEHOG'
I'm in a clique! It's a clique of one! It's a unique clique!
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And I inhaled a Boost bar.
I have had a about 3 full bowls of a honey nut cornflakes :rotfl:
Need to stop now so that I can clean my teeth in an hrs time. Just before I go to bed.
Yours
CalleyHope for everything and expect nothing!!!
Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz
If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin0
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