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Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

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  • Well i'm working boxing day :(

    And by the look of it new years even and new years day

    So thats everything !!!!ed up. Part of the reason i made the descion to go to Swain's was that i could work xmas eve (and be able to get the bus to his and theres no public transport on boxing day) and new years eve and have boxing day and new years day with him. New year for the past 2 ive spent alone and miserable and it looks like this year will be year 3.


    I need a new job. :( I'm going to be !!!!ing miserable on boxing day. silly me for thinking i'd escape the xmas depressive period.

    I worked every Boxing Day for 16 years. Everybody in our shop had to work it as it was one of our busiest days. I actually really enjoyed the go go go of it all.

    I totally see it from your POV but I also see it from a retail POV too, and I guess if not enough had put their names down then they had to pick somehow. Have you not worked for the last few boxing days? Maybe that's how she's doing it, those who worked last year gave this year off etc?

    It doesn't make financial business sense though to have to pay out £20 fare there and back when she could have perhaps picked someone nearer. Could you have a word with your colleagues and see if one of them might swap with you?

    It's not fair that you should be working both Boxing Day, NYE and NYD though. Hugs (((MU))) Working in retail really sucks sometimes :(
  • Hugs (((faerielight))) sorry things are so hard for you at the moment :(
  • mellymoo74
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    Ok
    Suitably scared now a size 4
  • Are you getting help off your doctor for your ED Melly? If not, I think it's time Hun.

    I'm 4 sizes bigger than you, and I'm not even what you would call big. At my smallest I was a size 8, and that was thin. A size 4 is tiny, you seriously can't afford to go any lower, please go and seek help :)
  • Pyxis
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    This is fantastic! What a great idea!

    Absolutely no triggers, WaS!


    (I just lurve spiders!)
    INFJ(Turbulent).

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  • calleyw
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    mellymoo74 wrote: »
    Lol pyxis.
    Calley are you ok?

    I am Melly thank you for asking.

    But very worried about you.

    I know that nothing I can say will make you eat. You have a lot of friends on here who are very worried about you. I assume its all the stress that has caused this ED.

    I know nagging does not work so I wont. But please start to think about yourself and your health.

    Have hugs, squishes and handshakes. And I think the cupboard in the fort is busting to see you.

    Yours

    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • That's adorable Pyxis, brought a tear to my eye!
  • calleyw
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    That's adorable Pyxis, brought a tear to my eye!

    Me too GG

    Yours


    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • codemonkey
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    I had a dream last night that Jack Whitehall was painting a room in my house and flicking paint at me. I woke up giggling. :rotfl:
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  • mellymoo74
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    The talking therapy I've been referred to should help.
    Yep stress it's taken a while to get to this stage usually it's much faster.
    I have been smaller but not by much
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