Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

jobbingmusician

Morning all!

Well, I woke up this morning feeling absolutely dreadful. I had ONE glass of wine last night (normal sized glass, before anyone speculates!) and it obviously didn't agree with me. Anyway, I felt a bit more human after a couple of paracetamol, and am now in work.

Faerie, it isn't clear from your posts whether all the services you've tried have been NHS ones, or whether you've been in touch with local voluntary organisations. Our Mind, for example, runs a 'women and mental health' group which is a chance for women to socialise together without any men present. If you contact your local CVS (look on http://data.navca.org.uk/members/directory and just put in your postcode to find this) they should know about mental health organisations in your locality.

And they might even be able to find you a formal advocate, if that would be helpful

calleyw

Waves_and_Smiles wrote: »

I hope you feel a little better today, Calley. I have been thinking of you.

WaS,

Thank you. You are are so kind to take the time to think about me.

I wish you lived near me as it would be great to chat.

I am not sure what I am feeling at the moment. Not phoned or turned up on anyones doorstep. And have no compulsion to. Which is good.

I may be getting a lodger soon. The money would be handy. But it would be nice to have company. But I suspect the person will stay with there spouse even though they are cheating and tried to get me to admit to him cheating with me!!!!!

I have started to do some glossing OMG I remember why I hate it so much LOL!!! Taking a break for a while and will go back to later.

I am being so tight that I have even cut my special expensive masking tape in half length ways to make it go further :rotfl:

Must remember when I go to take it off to use a hair dryer to warm the glue so it does not rip chucks out of the emulsion on the walls.

Yours

Calley

Wellyboots6

Ooh Calley, I know I don't know any details but what you said about your potential lodger rings alarm bells with me. I do apologise if I am speaking out of turn, but it might be worth giving careful consideration to the lodgers situation and whether it will bring unwelcome drama to your door'.

Pyxis

Wellyboots6 wrote: »

Ooh Calley, I know I don't know any details but what you said about your potential lodger rings alarm bells with me. I do apologise if I am speaking out of turn, but it might be worth giving careful consideration to the lodgers situation and whether it will bring unwelcome drama to your door'.

It might also be best to stick to female lodgers.

calleyw

Wellyboots6 wrote: »

Ooh Calley, I know I don't know any details but what you said about your potential lodger rings alarm bells with me. I do apologise if I am speaking out of turn, but it might be worth giving careful consideration to the lodgers situation and whether it will bring unwelcome drama to your door'.

To be truthful I don't think he will leave. And that is his choice.

I have offered as a friend as somewhere to stay. As he has no family or friends he can stay with.

I just find it very sad that she is trying to catch him out when he already has proof she is cheating on him. I understand your concern for me. But she does not know where I live and does not drive. And any grief there will be police involved.

Don't really want a lodger at all. But just wanted to help a friend out at a bad time.

Yours

Calley

whitewing

melly, I don't want to hassle you, but have you been able to speak to a doctor about your very low bmi yet? It is really important that you get some help.

Birdie85

Just catching up from the weekend...

Sorry you weren't well MU. You weren't to know how bad you'd be when you went to work and it sounds like it was unlikely that you'd have passed anything on. Even in the unlikely case that a customer did come down with a bug they're not going to immediately think 'Ah, there was a girl in the bakers who looked a bit green... j'accuse!'. You won't get in touble!

With the anti-bac chat, there's a Soap and Glory one called Hand Maid and it smells like pink grapefruit and actually leaves your hands feeling nice. I love it! I use it all the time and must have 5 bottles in various locations!

Hope you're OK Melly, I agree with the others that you need to seek help ASAP. You're no good to anyone dead!

calleyw

I woke up this morning and realised that I don't remember hearing anything from Tea.

I know someone pm her and she said she was ok but the new job was taking up her time.

I wonder how she is?

Yours

Calley

Pyxis

Georgiegirl256

Birdie85 wrote: »

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With the anti-bac chat, there's a Soap and Glory one called Hand Maid and it smells like pink grapefruit and actually leaves your hands feeling nice. I love it! I use it all the time and must have 5 bottles in various locations! !

I agree, it smells gorgeous! Love S&G stuff!

I'm currently making my Bath & Bodyworks list for America....I'm gonna need an extra suitcase :rotfl: