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How much would you pay a family member to babysit?

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  • dandelionclock30
    dandelionclock30 Posts: 3,235 Forumite
    edited 7 August 2015 at 4:13PM
    kleapatra wrote: »
    I'm babysitting my friends children tonight and I've never considered asking for money - and I've done it loads of times before and really dislike doing it! Surely you do it because they are either related or a friend, maybe I'm too nice...........

    Yes you are, start asking your friend for favours and see how far you get...

    Just say No.
  • Spinkz wrote: »
    I'd be happier if the 50ish was 15 :p

    Yeah but you wouldnt do it for that so why take the hit and miss out of someone? Ring round childminders and see how much it would cost you?
  • PlymouthMaid
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    £50!! Blimey. Seems an awful lot and she will expect that every time then too. A family member I would usually think wouldn't expect payment unless maybe it was a a teenager doing it for the dosh or it cost them a bit to do it for you ie petrol etc.
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  • Jagraf
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    Spinkz wrote: »
    Now if she did the cleaning instead of making the tea, 5 quid an hour would be fair and there is some ironing which i would chuck in an extra £2.50 as a bonus. Is it wrong to ask her to do that as well? It would stop her from getting bored...

    Moneysaving expert living up to its name here :D

    If she's a teen don't mix responsibilities of childminding and ironing for goodness sake :eek::D
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  • KiKi
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    (This is a Spinkz thread, so I'm not sure why people are offering serious replies...)

    Spinkzy, I'd offer £50, and throw the lasagne in for free. Don't give her your netflix password - she'll end up seeing all the movies you've been watching which wifey doesn't know about...and then she'll be costing you a hell of a lot more than £50.
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  • ToriP
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    Who charges to look after such close family? Especially as a one off?
  • amistupid
    amistupid Posts: 55,997 Forumite
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    edited 7 August 2015 at 4:56PM
    If she's a teen, she'll smuggle her boyfriend in and wreck your sofa. ;):D
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  • SailorSam
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    If the baby sitter was only young, maybe a teenager i'd expect to pay them. But not an adult family member, pay the taxi for her to go home if she needed it but that's about it.
    Paying anyone £50 it would have to be Christmas or New Year, but not a normal night.
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  • DaftyDuck
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    Can't you leave the wifey at home with the kids, take her sister and the fifty quid and have some fun? She can make you something better than a lasagne for when you eventually get in.....
  • Lunar_Eclipse
    Lunar_Eclipse Posts: 3,060 Forumite
    Free for family and close friends, £5/hour to others. £50 sounds a lot - she must be planning a loooonnng night out. Something special for you!
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