Item missing from house - hmmm we've got a cleaner

tomtontom

robotrobo wrote: »

get your son & cleaner on jeremy kyle:)

Don't forget poor old grandad, who can't do a thing right in his son's eyes ...

Pollycat

[quote=[Deleted User];68750641]Think you'll find I've not accused anyone just mentioned it as a possibility....
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Well, you might not have said it in so many words but you've most certainly implied it in a number of your posts - especially this one:
[quote=[Deleted User];68743805]Well of course nothing is 100% is it.... But its looking a good possibility to be honest.[/QUOTE]

I think you've been pretty unfair on this girl by thinking she's stolen something in the first place, being pretty condemning about her age & nationality and putting your suspicions out in the public domain.

I think you need to look closer to home.

[Deleted User]

tomtontom wrote: »

If that's not an accusation I don't know what is!

I'm merely stating a fact. If you read it again, I will try to explain.
Its not accusing my cleaner, its stating that I'm sure other people have had their cleaner steal from in the past, and people will continue to do so in the future. Its a possibility at this point that my cleaner is guilty - nothing more.

Hope that clears it up for you.

[Deleted User]

tomtontom wrote: »

Don't forget poor old grandad, who can't do a thing right in his son's eyes ...

I've got a stalker.....

[Deleted User]

Pollycat wrote: »

Well, you might not have said it in so many words but you've most certainly implied it in a number of your posts - especially this one:


I think you've been pretty unfair on this girl by thinking she's stolen something in the first place, being pretty condemning about her age & nationality and putting your suspicions out in the public domain.

I think you need to look closer to home.

No I've not been unfair to her at all. I've not accused her - all I've done so far is ask her politely.

There is a difference to what is done to people in real life and what is discussed on an anonymous forum after all.....
Its not as if I've released her identity is it?

Azari

[quote=[Deleted User];68753730]I'm merely stating a fact. If you read it again, I will try to explain.
Its not accusing my cleaner, its stating that I'm sure other people have had their cleaner steal from in the past, and people will continue to do so in the future. Its a possibility at this point that my cleaner is guilty - nothing more.

Hope that clears it up for you.[/QUOTE]

Nope, you were just using weasel words to imply an accusation.

Try this:

"Paul Foel was at my house last night.

After he left I noticed some silver was missing.

It's possible he took it.

I'm not the first person to have something stolen by a Paul."

[Deleted User]

Azari wrote: »

Nope, you were just using weasel words to imply an accusation.

Try this:

"Paul Foel was at my house last night.

After he left I noticed some silver was missing.

It's possible he took it.

I'm not the first person to have something stolen by a Paul."

Fair enough. Common sense would indicate that somewhere there is a Paul that is into thieving.

And yes if Im at someones house and something goes missing, its possible I took it. Its also possible that aliens teleported into the house and stole it, or the cat ate it.

LABMAN

[quote=[Deleted User];68754095]Fair enough. Common sense would indicate that somewhere there is a Paul that is into thieving.

And yes if Im at someones house and something goes missing, its possible I took it. Its also possible that aliens teleported into the house and stole it, or the cat ate it.[/QUOTE]



...or that somebody has sold them to a mate in order to buy some booze or illegal substance?

SpammyTheSpammer

Handbags down, nothing here any longer -move along....

suki1964

[quote=[Deleted User];68753747]No I've not been unfair to her at all. I've not accused her - all I've done so far is ask her politely.

There is a difference to what is done to people in real life and what is discussed on an anonymous forum after all.....
Its not as if I've released her identity is it?[/QUOTE]

No. What you actually done was to post that something from your house went missing, and that you had a " young Eastern European cleaner" who was the only stranger in the house


From your first post you were implying that she was a thief


If you weren't , what was your op actually about?