one day at a time

Bobarella

Phew glad the weekend was uneventful.

safehouse

Thanks Bobarella............relax until the next Bank Hol..:o Xx

Council came yesterday to discuss garden plan and booked in for Tuesday..feels like I am getting one of those garden makeovers from the telly Lol ...:T
last night DS came home with hamster, cage the full get up ..animal crazy, but.probably another job for me in the long run!
Early start..............Wow this overtime is crippling me this week and only Wednesday.

safehouse

Very productive day ..£191 a year saved by switching energy company, plus £22 from toppy cashback :T
Also NSD today
all the excitement made me very tired lol ..needing an early night..............................:)

safehouse

DS guitar lesson cancelled so £10 paid into mortgage fund instead .
Need an early start have 4 house cleans booked in for today:eek: could do with lots of sugar/energy but still sort of dieting.. although been stuck at same weight for a while "maybe all the cleaning will work off some extra calories". ........


A.. store Card £400 /CC B £1,420/ CC S £1,600/ CC A £800....£4,200 total …. Mortgage £100,000 /£70,190 paid £29,810 remaining….EF..240.00 total....(**Total 70,440**)........better than late xmas fund £11

safehouse

All DD paid for August giving us a smashing amount of £300 left over and paid into mortgage this morning :T
Off track this morning with £15 of silly spends .........mainly junk food, pop and other rubbish..annoyed with myself................waste of cash not to mention how Diet has gone totally out the window:(
OH working today enjoying the tranquility plus having the house to myself without worrying "heaven" :j ..time for cuppa no 3 followed by nap.:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D Loving it!!


A.. store Card £400 /CC B £1,420/ CC S £1,600/ CC A £800....£4,200 total …. Mortgage £100,000 /£70,490 paid £29,810 remaining….EF..240.00 total....(**Total 70,740**)........better than late xmas fund £12

Bobarella

And I bet you are loving this rainy gloomy evening just like me arent you .#rainloversanonomous

safehouse

Still raining here now Bobarella still loving it........................

OMG I need to get this out... feel like I am going to burst.:eek:..Last night I booked a week away abroad, only me and DS and that's not all, have booked for the week over Xmas, still that's not the worst or best of it.....Haven't told OH infact sitting here now feeling a mixture of nervousness, sickness and excitement. I can't believe it was me who booked it, just never had the guts before. The thought of another horrible Xmas and the plastic family act looming was to much to bare and something just snapped in me. I pressed confirm and now my mind is all over the place..should I keep it a secret from OH until it gets closer?, avoiding the guilt trip and poor me act.......Oh and his family will be furious with me, but then why should I care about those nasty people after the way they treated me & DS last year by providing OH with large bottles of whisky. At least now they can enjoy his company on Xmas day "but I am sure he will be on his best behavior getting loads of sympathy"and I will certainly be the main topic around the table Lol ..............................Wow now I am ranting .......................
Need to sort out doggy care for that week also...very important
update later.............Oh dear, wish me luck.... Xx

MissShoes

Well done, I remember those posts from Xmas last year and now you've given yourself what you wanted////and you totally deserve it!

xxx

MissShoes

ps maybe if people do say anything to you it's easier to be blunt?? 'We're going away so we don't have to experience the hostility and nastiness that we did last year as well as witness OH abuse himself with alcohol and you facilitate it. We're really looking forward to a break'.

But then, I'm not known for my tact.....

TallGirl

You go girl I'm so pleased you've done it perfect let the family deal with him on xmas day and you have a nice chill out time. So pleased for you I remember when I first realised I wanted to do things without my ex so much better and a nice feeling