38 and Single :o(

[Deleted User]

Re-using your username across multiple sites isn't great. It makes you very trackable online; especially if you use a real name, or parts of it, then provide any 'real' details in your posts.

happiness.v4

Get yourself logged on to https://www.meetup.com - get yourself out there meeting some new people. I signed up in February...all of a sudden I have a social life, I'm meeting new people, I'm going for drinks, walks, meals out, bowling, to ice creameries, on photo walks...you name it! All my coupled up loved up sprogged up friends who ditched me for the loves of their lives are now envying the fact I have a social life again...

...and guest what? 90% of people who go there are single.... It's getting me out the house, I'm making new friends, and I'm meeting a few more people of the opposite sex at the same time....

It's really worth doing, and a lot of the activities are free or a £1 or £2 contribution to the organiser....

Please give it a whirl....

Good luck xx

happiness.v4

I should read the comments before posting! *Goes and grabs popcorn for the stalking action*.

toniq

itchyextremist wrote: »

Just to quell some fears, I do actually know Lynsay!

Then tell her who or how she knows you or leave her alone.

You really have come across creepy and stalkerish, which you seem to revel in.

fivetide

toniq wrote: »

You really have come across creepy and stalkerish and trollesque, which you seem to revel in.

just a wee add for accuracy!

JasX

happiness.v4 wrote: »

Get yourself logged on to https://www.meetup.com ..

+1... I ended up running one of the groups after a while ;p

(steals a handful of popcorn and takes seat)

marisco_2

itchyextremist wrote: »

and I prefer "admiring from afar" than "stalking"

If you admire someone and have any respect for them, you don't play mind games with them or try to cause them totally unnecessary stress and anxiety, via social media or anywhere else!

1940sGal

Well after I posted what I did on Saturday i got talking to someone and have carried on and now we're going out on Saturday. And from what we've spoke about we have loads in common

cashewnut

Great news 1940s gal! Let us know how you get on

neatheyc

JasX wrote: »

+1... I ended up running one of the groups after a while ;p

(steals a handful of popcorn and takes seat)

So I have finally taken the plunge and booked to go on a Meetup event this Sunday. It's local to where I am and it's walking distance. Plus it's a beer, wine and cider festival so I can have a few to loosen me up!