exs new boyfriend

whitewing

Sarah's Law. You can call 101 to see if you can request it.

theend?

peter crossed wires shes gone from her mothers and its staying with him at his place.

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whitewing that looks like what i was after will look into it this week, thanks

Hoipolloi

I wouldn't be happy about it either. I think you need to communicate your concerns to your ex wife though. :beer:

ZsaZsa

I know it's not going to give you hard facts, but have you googled, face book snooped etc?

74jax

It is really hard when people move on. When I split with my hubby I had DD and she went to his on a weekend, one day she came back saying she met such-and-such and I do admit I FB-snooped..... but that was all.

Why don't you suggest to her that if she has plans for a weekend when the children are due to stay with her, that you have them back at night (or are you ok with them staying at their grandparents), I would just talk to her.

You seem to have a good relationship with the rest of the family (ie know the kids stay with them, they haven't met the new person either) so youcould speak to them.

Kynthia

Do you have any reason to believe your ex-wife has poor judgement and put her children at risk? Surely you have to trust her and let her be responsible for her children without your interference when they're in her care just like you want her to trust your judgement and not interfere when they're in your care? It's different if either one of you has been shown to have poor judgement or be neglectful in the past but if not then you need to back off a little and deal with the fact that these things are the new difficulties you'll face now that you're seperated.

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Kynthia
Poor judgement could be her middle name unfortunatly its why weve split. She has a drink problem amongst other things, thats why im happy when shes at her mums as I know shes there to keep a eye out. its unsettling to say the least that she may be in a place where i dont know who is there and what shes up to which I know is a sad thing to say and makes me sound like some control freak but its the kids I have the concern about.

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Zsa Zsa
Yes facebooked him but only have a picture from that, cant tell much from that.
I know im souding really odd now admitting to that even to myself.
Just wondered what other people had done in this situation - its a new one on me.

DUTR

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Kynthia
Bad judgement could be her middle name unfortunatly its why weve split. She has a drink problem amost other things, thats why im happy when shes at her mums as I know shes there to keep a eye out. its unsettling to say the least that she may be in a place where i dont know who is there and what shes up to which I know is a sad thing to say and makes me sound like some control freak but its the kids I have the concern about.

You have every right to be concerned, anyone remember this story?