Revenge against a cheater!!!

Avoriaz

UKGuy wrote: »

Some people just need to learn to suck it up and move on as self pity is so unnecessary!

Maybe that was why he cheated.

:whistle:

peter_the_piper

Good on her, wish you tube etc had been around a long time ago when my ex had played around.

sweetme

amistupid wrote: »

The cheater may be better punished by the victim keeping their dignity rather than seeking revenge.

This a thousand times over. Surely better to move on a build yourself a better and happier life than seek revenge.

Hoipolloi

We each have our own ways of dealing with things, but it wouldn't be my means of revenge. Mine would be having an absolutely brilliant effing life without the cheating scumbag. :beer:

j.e.j.

Videoing people and uploading it on YouTube without their consent should be illegal (if it isn't already?)

I know what she did is not exactly 'revenge !!!!!!', but it's in that sort of category.

pollypenny

Oh-oh, silly woman!

This will come back to haunt her. Jon Ronson has just written a book about people whose lives have been messed up by t'interweb!

fairy_lights

I've made it clear to my OH that if he ever cheats on me that will be the end of our relationship, and I will get full custody of the cat, which I think will be revenge enough.

davsidipp

Revenge is never sweet.move on with your head held high ...

Poppy9

amistupid wrote: »

The cheater may be better punished by the victim keeping their dignity rather than seeking revenge.

Absolutely. I would have more self respect that to show everyone how devastated I am at being cheated on. I would hate people's pity at being the victim of a cheat.

My mother told me that love and hate are the same emotion and until you stop hating someone you can't move on so you need to let it go.

uberalles

davsidipp wrote: »

Revenge is never sweet.move on with your head held high ...

Heyyyy !!! Welcome back fellow South Londoner, ain't seen you about in a while.

I disagree by the way, but each to their own. Take care.