We all need to be heard for a little while.

System

Anybody have a time machine? So i can go back and undo the stupid stuff i've done? And maybe go back to a time i felt happy.

Also just realised the last time i ate an actual meal was wednesday i've had no appetite. Kind of hungry but kind of too depressed to do anything about it.

jobbingmusician

No, MU. But you don't need to go back and undo stupid stuff, because we all do stupid stuff and so your SS will work itself out.

You are IN a time machine, but it's taking you forwards to a happy future. Just have a think about how you can make the future as happy as you can. What can you do to give yourself a sense of achievement and build your happiness quotient? (Sorry to sound so preachy. But what I am trying to get across is that things WILL get better, and in the mean time if you can do something to feel happier in yourself it will help.)

And in the meantime, there are duvets and cakes

System

Getting something to eat and trying to distract myself with a film might help. Being sat here dwelling on stuff certainly isn't helping.

tea_lover

(((MU))), chin up poppet, we've all done stupid stuff. Stick a film on, eat something and get an earlyish night x.

What film you going to go for?

Pyxis

Just for you, MessedUp, a couple of treats guaranteed to get your feet tapping, your body moving, your voice singing and your spirits, well, if not soaring, then a few feet off the ground at least! :T

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSKJQ18ZoIA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K54VMAmjNSk

tea_lover

To cheer you up....about 10 yrs ago I'd recently split up with someone. Got very, very drunk one night, thought it would be a good idea to call an ex. I didn't call the ex I'd just broken up with. I decided to call an ex from when I was 19. I didn't even have his number (it was so long ago, we didn't have mobiles when we went out). So I called his mum at about 1am and said I was a friend from school. For some unfathomable reason she gave me his number. I then text him and basically offered a booty call. Which he politely declined.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

elsien

This is going to be my dragon's den venture, if anyone wants to go shares. (Code, you're techie, step into my lair..)
Some sort of app/mobile gizmo that is a combined breath tester/number blocker so that you can set in beforehand anyone it would be a really bad idea to drunk text. Possibly with additional email diverter that sends drunken emails into a holding folder to be reviewed when alcohol levels are back in normal range. With the option also block faceeache etc.
Anyone want to make their fortune?

tea_lover

I tried to get some of the engineers at work to invent that lol. Told them the phone could be used for taxi, pizza but nothing else

Waves_and_Smiles

Good evening all! Welcome Chris!

Big hugs MU, I hang myself for stupid stuff I have done every night before I sleep but neither of us are to blame. Everyone has done stupid stuff, it is how we learn. I promise you will start to feel better again, we are all with you and supporting you.

I had a day of psychosis, I suppose it was inevitable after the mood dip. I have just woken from a long drug-induced sleep and feel better although still shaky. I shall tell everyone about it in a bit after a coffee or 3.

katsu

Elsien. I swear by wrist warmers. I wear them loads in the house. Long ones in washable fleece. I recommend Manbi as a make as they've lasted me years.

I layer up a lot. avoid touching anything too hot and use a warm drink or hot water bottle to hold. Also thermal socks keep my toes warm.

I had some outdoor battery powered gloves but they took a big round battery (C or D or something) so were too heavy.

Hope this is some help.