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  • calleyw
    calleyw Posts: 9,896 Forumite
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    nicely stuffed now :rotfl: roast chicken breast dinner and mixed berry crumble for dessert.

    Off to snuggle down and and binge on episodes of castle

    Everyone have a good afternoon

    Yours

    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Having mopped the hall a big black ball of fluff just thought skidding down it would be fun.
    Let's mop the hall again lol
  • Pyxis
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    edited 17 May 2015 at 3:14PM
    There are very few ads that I really like, but this was one! I think it's brilliant!

    (WaS, I think it's quite safe for you to watch! There's a lovely happy ending!)

    (I just lurve spiders!)
    INFJ(Turbulent).

    Her Greenliness Baroness Pyxis of the Alphabetty, Pinnacle of Peadom and Official Brainbox
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  • whitewing
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    elsien wrote: »
    I am attempting to NVQ again. The written work is going well, I am struggling with the observations. In part because I need to phone people with my line manager listening to talk through their options with them. And I am finding that although people are agreeing when I ask them, when it comes to it they're not answering the phone. I can understand why - I'm a bit phone avoidance myself at times - but it's not helping my evidence gathering!

    Could you record the call (you would have to let the person know you are doing so for training and quality reasons). Then your line manager could listen to it afterwards with you. The downside of course being that they can't intervene during the call.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • Waves_and_Smiles
    Waves_and_Smiles Posts: 5,263 Forumite
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    I loved that video, Pyxis! Go fishie!

    Well done on the weightloss, whitewing! It must be so much better to be able to move more freely.

    On the subject of eating, WaSp and I are making stew later. WaSp suggested because he know's I am hanging myself over the grilled oven glove incident and he is attempting to give me some confidence back. He will be chopping vegetables and handling heavy pans, I will be putting things in pans and telling him what needs to be included. Then I am going to attempt to make a crumble. If WaSp deals with the oven part I hopefully can't mess that up.
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
  • calleyw
    calleyw Posts: 9,896 Forumite
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    If WaSp deals with the oven part I hopefully can't mess that up.

    Shall I tell you one of my biggest fears. Cooking for other people. My husband was fine but for other people I was/am so scared of poisoning people.

    I tend to over cook everything LOL!!!!!


    Yours

    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • Pyxis
    Pyxis Posts: 46,077 Forumite
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    WaS, if it's lamb stew, then crumble, lay a place for me! :D
    (Says the person who has just eaten a sausage and vegetable medley stir fry/stew thing!)




    Calley, have you thought of investing in a cook's thermometer? Then if the core temperature of the cooked dish is right, you should be ok!
    (I just lurve spiders!)
    INFJ(Turbulent).

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    Founder Member: 'WIMPS ANONYMOUS' and 'VICTIMS of the RANDOM HEDGEHOG'
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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    TIA unit referral time.
    Arms not come back properly and heads off again.
    JLR want me to come in for an informal chat next week
    Shelter Wednesday
  • Waves_and_Smiles
    Waves_and_Smiles Posts: 5,263 Forumite
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    edited 17 May 2015 at 5:03PM
    I used to be scared of cooking for other people but that quickly went I worked in a residential home and we staff had to cook dinners with the residents if they wanted to. I was producing a meal for 10 once a week so had to get over my fear pretty fast! I was terrified the first few times.

    WaSp is right by suggesting we cook a meal together, my inclination is to avoid cooking entirely after I mess up but avoidance won't help. Far better that I get back on the proverbial horse and try again with supervision this time. It is indeed lamb stew!

    I really hope you feel better soon, melly. Try to rest if you can with everything else going on. I am still looking for a cuddly grey alien after seeing yours!
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    WaS write crib notes and stick em to a cupboard
    I know you use lists
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