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Old Man's Family Refusing To Pay For His Funeral

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  • cypher007
    cypher007 Posts: 359 Forumite
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    bluelass wrote: »
    Well I have been barred from this particular pub now because I refused to contribute towards anything.


    well rid if you ask me. find another boozer must be plenty.
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 36,231 Forumite
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    bluelass wrote: »
    Well I have been barred from this particular pub now because I refused to contribute towards anything.

    This is sounding more bizarre every time you post.

    I find it really hard to believe that somebody would ring up a customer and ask them to contribute £200 towards somebody's funeral (a customer who doesn't even know the deceased) when there are surviving family and even harder to believe that a landlord would bar somebody for not contributing to a funeral.

    So - has the landlord barred all your quiz group friends too?
    bluelass wrote: »
    Well im not giving anything and neither is anyone on the quiz as im told they think its unfair as well.

    My Dad's funeral cost around £3000 so at that rate, assuming they were asking everybody for £200, it would mean there are only 15 regular customers - or 14 if you count the landlord.

    Bit of a silly move by the landlord to bar customers for refusing to contribute to the funeral of someone they don't know if he doesn't have that large a clientele.

    If any of this is actually true. smiley-rolleyes010.gif
  • TonyMMM
    TonyMMM Posts: 3,448 Forumite
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    Not that long ago having a "paupers" funeral was seen as the worst possible disgrace for a person/family - people joined funeral clubs to avoid it.

    Nowadays I suppose they are known as "Over 50" plans that get sold on daytime TV !
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    TonyMMM wrote: »
    Not that long ago having a "paupers" funeral was seen as the worst possible disgrace for a person/family - people joined funeral clubs to avoid it.

    Nowadays I suppose they are known as "Over 50" plans that get sold on daytime TV !

    Don't touch those - buy a proper funeral plan where you pay for the funeral rather than commit yourself to paying a set amount a month for the rest of your life.
  • TonyMMM
    TonyMMM Posts: 3,448 Forumite
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    Mojisola wrote: »
    Don't touch those - buy a proper funeral plan where you pay for the funeral rather than commit yourself to paying a set amount a month for the rest of your life.

    I agree.....( mine wasn't a recommendation, just a comment !)
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,649 Forumite
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    bluelass wrote: »
    Well I have been barred from this particular pub now because I refused to contribute towards anything.

    So are the others who didn't contribute also been barred ?

    Its a bit harsh to bar you for not contributing.
  • bluelass
    bluelass Posts: 587 Forumite
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    Yes its all true. Six others have been told they are no longer welcome too. No worries there are better quiz nights in nicer places to go to. When I asked why I was banned he said I was a tight cold !!!!!.
    Britain is great but Manchester is greater
  • bluelass
    bluelass Posts: 587 Forumite
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    bluelass wrote: »
    Yes its all true. Six others have been told they are no longer welcome too. No worries there are better quiz nights in nicer places to go to. When I asked why I was banned he said I was a tight cold !!!!!.
    sorry about the b word
    Britain is great but Manchester is greater
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 25,214 Forumite
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    Pollycat wrote: »
    This is sounding more bizarre every time you post.

    I find it really hard to believe that somebody would ring up a customer and ask them to contribute £200 towards somebody's funeral (a customer who doesn't even know the deceased) when there are surviving family and even harder to believe that a landlord would bar somebody for not contributing to a funeral.

    If any of this is actually true. smiley-rolleyes010.gif
    Having magically managed to obtain their phone number, even though they don't know OP.
  • bluelass
    bluelass Posts: 587 Forumite
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    The landlord asked for mine and other peoples phone numbers than forwarded them to the old boys eldest son that's how I got a call.
    Britain is great but Manchester is greater
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