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  • Icey77
    Icey77 Posts: 1,247 Forumite
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    mavvymoo wrote: »
    The other thing is iQueen how does she stay clean wearing White :eek:I would look like I had been dragged though a hedge backwards after about 2 mins :D x

    Ha, just wait for her baby to arrive, I doubt she'll be wearing much white then!! ;)
    Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re probably right ~ Henry Ford
  • tooties
    tooties Posts: 801 Forumite
    edited 8 June 2015 at 12:23AM
    Good Evening All (or maybe good very early morning All),

    I am not happy with my Kondo efforts, i thought i was but upon really looking at my home i am not happy.

    I am rereading the bible to see where i have gone wrong, i suspect its because i didn't stick to categories, and i have been buying stuff again. I rushed into it without finishing the bible and flitted about discarding whatever i saw.

    I am not too disheartened, well i am about the buying things which is obviously some other deepseated problem that i will need to work on.

    Onwards, upwards and back to rereading the bible.

    well done on all your efforts, keep up the good work.

    PS our car is called Foosty, but most other stuff in our house is called carp.

    regards
    :j
  • tooties
    tooties Posts: 801 Forumite
    Forgot to mention,

    in my opinion the new style forum is awful, i will not be kondoing the old one i'm keeping it.

    Regards
    :j
  • mavvymoo
    mavvymoo Posts: 2,152 Forumite
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    edited 8 June 2015 at 7:07AM
    tooties wrote: »
    Good Evening All (or maybe good very early morning All),

    I am not happy with my Kondo efforts, i thought i was but upon really looking at my home i am not happy.

    I am rereading the bible to see where i have gone wrong, i suspect its because i didn't stick to categories, and i have been buying stuff again. I rushed into it without finishing the bible and flitted about discarding whatever i saw.

    I am not too disheartened, well i am about the buying things which is obviously some other deepseated problem that i will need to work on.

    Onwards, upwards and back to rereading the bible.

    well done on all your efforts, keep up the good work.

    PS our car is called Foosty, but most other stuff in our house is called carp.

    regards

    Tooties
    You are going to do the best thing reread and start again. I have done this on quite a few categories you cant do this as a major declutter it is a journey! The good thing is for you is a lot of the clutter has gone so you have an excellent starting point now :)

    I know a lot of people who have completed it like you have and felt the same as you. Not joyful not happy and not FINISHED. I think that is the key you cant be happy with what you have left as you have not finished your journey mentally.

    I have now done clothes again for about the 7th time :eek: yesterday I went back to basics everything was pulled out and put on the floor and I started again as it was a niggling doubt in my head and I kept being pulled back there.

    This isnt a process to be taken lightly as it really gives you elation one minute and black dog (as I call it ) the next.I think you do need to experience this in order for this to work and nothing not one thing can be skipped over.

    I really wish you luck but you are going to have to really start feeling it.You will get there if I can anyone can do it but be prepared to dig deep and really look into yourself and you will find the answers. I just wish I could tell you what they are but I cant that is up to you :)

    Mav x

    I 100% agree about the forum x

    Debt free and Mortgage free thank you to all for your encouragement and advice
    :j
    Crazy Clothes challenge £300/£48 and 5 months /0 without spending :T


  • PollyWollyDoodle
    PollyWollyDoodle Posts: 2,186 Forumite
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    mavvymoo wrote: »
    The other thing is iQueen how does she stay clean wearing White :eek:I would look like I had been dragged though a hedge backwards after about 2 mins :D

    Cant see Marie wearing an apron or overall just wouldnt bring her joy I dont think :)

    As she said its like her brand and what her clients expect. I can forgive her as I love the kondo factor and it really does work !

    Mav x

    In the book she says that she always works wearing a skirt and blazer as she likes to look smart and it doesn't prevent her from climbing on furniture etc. She lost me at 'blazer'! :rotfl:
    Life is mainly froth and bubble: two things stand like stone. Kindness in another’s trouble, courage in your own.
  • mavvymoo
    mavvymoo Posts: 2,152 Forumite
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    In the book she says that she always works wearing a skirt and blazer as she likes to look smart and it doesn't prevent her from climbing on furniture etc. She lost me at 'blazer'! :rotfl:

    :rotfl:Maybe it is a white Blazer like the ones people do Green bowling in and a White skirt :eek: Cant see that get up giving anyone joy let alone our Marie :rotfl:

    Sounds a bit strange to me and I agree she has lost me a bit too :)

    Mav x

    Debt free and Mortgage free thank you to all for your encouragement and advice
    :j
    Crazy Clothes challenge £300/£48 and 5 months /0 without spending :T


  • mavvymoo
    mavvymoo Posts: 2,152 Forumite
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    edited 8 June 2015 at 7:52AM
    mavvymoo wrote: »
    :rotfl:Maybe it is a white Blazer like the ones people do Green bowling in and a White skirt :eek: Cant see that get up giving anyone joy let alone our Marie :rotfl:

    Sounds a bit strange to me and I agree she has lost me a bit too :)

    Mav x

    Edited to say what is the difference between a Blazer and a Jacket ?
    I always remember my Dad or was it Mum saying years ago to go and get their Blazer !
    Thinking about this did a Blazer have one button and a jacket have more than one ? Just a thought in my very muddled brain !

    Debt free and Mortgage free thank you to all for your encouragement and advice
    :j
    Crazy Clothes challenge £300/£48 and 5 months /0 without spending :T


  • mavvymoo
    mavvymoo Posts: 2,152 Forumite
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    pigpen wrote: »
    I bought some for my son when he was about 15

    :D I bet he loved it :) I know my son would have done at 15 :)
    So now we know why they make these soaps and towels as there really is a market for them :) Hope another one comes in for the fete as everyone had such a laugh about it.

    Mav x

    Debt free and Mortgage free thank you to all for your encouragement and advice
    :j
    Crazy Clothes challenge £300/£48 and 5 months /0 without spending :T


  • Craftyscholar
    Craftyscholar Posts: 3,403 Forumite
    edited 8 June 2015 at 4:40PM
    Went to get a thinner jumper out (fingers crossed summer is finally on its way) and realised I am going to have to be far more ruthless over tops and jumpers.
    I easily got rid of the 'what was I thinking' ones, but the right colour/right size ones stayed. Bit missing? right style - I don't wear v-necks or 3/4 sleeves any more.
    Oh well, onwards and upwards.
    Must go and have a look at that article, I would say 'accept that she is a successful businesswoman and take what works for you from what she says'.
  • oceanspirit
    oceanspirit Posts: 1,185 Forumite
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    Tooties, all the best for Kondo Take 2.

    Definitely not feeling the joy here yet as the more I do, the worse state my home is in! That's the trouble with small space living - I'm having to keep moving things from one place to another whilst I'm sorting. Can't wait for it all to have a home as I've been tripping over it all for 8 years (moved from much larger home).

    Good news is that a large sack of shreddings left with my friend yesterday, lots went in the recycle bin and scrap paper drawer has been refilled.

    There are still 5 files to go through in the top drawer of the filing cabinet and the whole of the bottom drawer is to be done. Found 2 missing documents that I've been looking for and several things which should have been binned years ago have been sent out of the door.

    Once I've finished the cabinet, I will be able to file other things away as I go through the piles and boxes in rest of the room. It's going to take an age as there is just so much of it, and I've already done loads as there were dozens of box files too.
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