Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 12

codemonkey

chickp wrote: »

My main concern right now is that it looks like I will be 'on' on my wedding day - not ideal in an ivory dress :eek:

The medication you can take to delay it cannot be used if you are pregnant so it would mean not ttc the month before just in case. I'm going to discuss it with my dr next week but wondered what you guys thought? Of course, if I get a BFP next month it won't be necessary!

Pokes head in the room
There are a couple of natural options you can try to bring ovulation forward e.g. large doses of soy isoflavones from cd2-7 (or 3-8) or lunaception (sleeping in pitch black or using a sleep mask until you decide you want to ovualate, then using a light/mask for a few days, then back to darkness). Both of these have worked for me in the past without messing up my cycle.

Of course, it may be that the streas of wedding planning delays your ovulation anyway so AF comes later.

Goes back to lurking.

snapping_crocodile

Lottielou Fx for you.

Can I be updated to CD1 please? Clearly this thread is doing strange things to everyone's cycles this month as my was bang on 28 days when normally it's between 30-32! So on to month 16 TTC I go

LottieLou

I unfortunately have some sad news to share. It was confirmed today that my pregnancy is not viable and am miscarrying my hcg has only risen by 12%

My cervix is closed, so although I am bleeding alot they say I will start to bleed more in the next few days (hopefully, so I dont need a d&c) I was 6+1 today and never even got a scan. Even though it wouldn't have shown much, if anything at all I cant help but feel like thats been taken away from us.

I feel like im going to crumble, but things can always be worse cant they, im lucky for what I do have. I hope everyone is alright, its heartbreaking that this happens.

Cuilean

Oh no, LottieLou So gutted for you, you must be completely devastated. Absolutely nothing I can say to make it better, but I am thinking of you, as I'm sure we all are. So unfair.

skaps

Sorry to hear that lottie. I was 6 and had a scan which then showed nothing. It's heartbreaking. Try to stay strong xxx

snapping_crocodile

So sorry Lottielou, it's devastating

Cuilean

That's me out of the game this month - BFN this morning Ah well, OH didn't want a December baby, and having had the excitement of relocation in 2015, a 2016 baby would be fine. Bring on the 2016 babies!

aileth

Lottielou, I'm so so sorry, take care of yourself.

Bad news Cuilean! We totally forgot about the December baby. Ovia says if we got lucky this month it'd be 16-20 December. I have mixed feelings about it ATM!

lulu_92

Oh Lottie I'm so sorry

Bad time Cuilean but yeah a December baby isn't my ideal either. If I've got lucky EDD would be 10th December, two days before my step-dad's.

Not much to report here. Had some really bad cramps last night and my back hurts, but other than that I feel quite normal. Not had as many spots this time, though. I usually get a couple of massive spots by my jawline that take ages to actually raise above the skin, and this month I've had one on my cheek that I found this morning and has now gone.

blueneleh

So sorry to hear that Lottie. Look after yourself.
(((((Hugs)))))