Want to kick my fiancee's sister out

Sanga

Shen81 wrote: »

Something has happened, I can sense it by the way he is making her out. He is not as innocent as he wants people to believe. Even if the "full on" was just kissing, it is still cheating.

I would hate to be your partner lol talk about twisting words! As clark said it could be put to an end in a minute. It was less than a minute actually but her full on move was enough to show me her intentions.

Sanga

Orlando_Virgin wrote: »

The problem I think you've got here, is that you should have told the Mrs straight away. She is going to think you should have reacted impulsively and decisively towards no, and caused a scene about it.

Now you've waited this long, it'll allow her mind to wonder and think you might have fabricated it to cover something that has happened up. The only thing you can do is tell her ASAP and explain the only reason for delay is the awkwardness of the situation and her feelings. Otherwise you could be in trouble here.

I was thinking about how i tell my fiancee. My plan is to get some evidence to back it up. Her sister has been behaving herself since the last attempt so hopefully she has got the message and has decided to back off. If she doesn't try again i'll just leave it out for everyones sake.

[Deleted User]

Hi,

suggest a threesome, that'll should keep everybody happy.

Randomjargon

[Deleted User] wrote:

Hi,

suggest a threesome, that'll should keep everybody happy.

Agreed.

Man up and have sex with the sister, if it all goes wrong just deny everything. Easy

pimento

fivetide wrote: »

Well there you are, giving your opinion. I assume it is ok for you to give your opinion but no one else can do the same?


Also, do you notice the irony of you making this post, which has nothing to do with what to OP posted, and actually taking the thread off topic? Don't answer, you know it to be true and you are right, it will get worse.


To give a simple answer though, I never said any of those things or thought any of those things about anyone posting in this thread.


As already stated, I just felt that the opening post, underwear included, seemed a bit far fetched. If the OP had written simply "she has twice made a move on me which I feel is highly inappropriate" then I may have been more trusting.


This line however, just seemed 'off' to me "she came into the living room in her underwear and offered it to me". That's why I am sceptical. I never called the OP a liar.


Nothing more nothing less. It annoys me when posters like you get all judgemental and assume lots of things about other posters for no reason too


I would welcome the OP convincing me this is on the level. Sounds interesting but has shades of campervan on the driveway for those who remember that.

So what if it's a hypothetical question? Reading the responses might help someone who is actually in the situation down the line.

I also think the word troll should be banned. Nobody who uses it here has the faintest idea of what it means. It's very tedious.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_%28Internet%29

sax11

If you kick her out she can come and live with me

Randomjargon

Pictures or its a troll

moneyistooshorttomention

Three is a crowd anyway in these circumstances...even if she wasn't trying it on.

Time for her to go...

AsknAnswer2

You need to tell your fiance whether she tries it on again or not. A long time ago, I was in the town my friend lived in visiting my brother and decided to drop in on her whilst I was there. She wasn't there but her boyfriend invited me in for a cuppa - I assumed to wait for her. After my cuppa, I asked when she'd be home. Only then did he mention that she'd gone to her fathers for the evening and wouldn't be back til tomorrow. I stood up to put my coat on, saying let her know I dropped by. He then made a move on me. I was mad as hell and he begged me not to tell her and gave me a sob story about how he was all confused and messed up and wasn't thinking straight (they had just found out they were expecting and it wasn't planned). I left and agonised over whether to tell her. I decided not to. I'd known him just as long as I'd known her and it was very out of character for him so I accepted his story and thought I'd do more harm than good if I told her.

Time passed, they moved to a bigger house for the impending arrival, I attended their housewarming party and met my friend regularly. Everything was normal. One evening, she invited me over for a takeaway. Whilst we were all sitting in their house(her, the boyfriend and a group of their other friends), completely out of the blue, halfway through the takeaway, she asked me to tell her when it was acceptable to come onto a friend's boyfriend. It became apparent very quickly that he'd told her I'd come onto HIM and that I'd been lured there for a confrontation. It was very awkward because their friends were sat there some open mouthed, some hollering abuse at me and I felt very intimidated.

I upped and left. She followed. I told her the truth but she didn't believe me and that was the end of that friendship. They married, had a few more kids and years down the line she caught him at it with another of her friends.

I don't know to this day why he did it. It could have been sheer vindictiveness, it could have been fear that I'd eventually open my mouth and land him in it. My point is, get in there before she does, because if she lies later on, you might not be able to limit the damage.

pickledonionspaceraider

I think you need to tell your fianc!. The fact you are withholding this information from her - makes you a liar

How would you feel if the situation was reversed - Hypothetically your brother came to say and tried it on with your missus - would you WANT to know?