Want to kick my fiancee's sister out

Nodding_Donkey

I was a very happy man. My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me—it was her beautiful younger sister.
My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight miniskirts, and generally was bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me, and I always got more than a nice view. It had to be deliberate. Because she never did it when she was near anyone else.

One day her “little” sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn’t overcome. She told me that she wanted me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. Well, I was in total shock, and couldn’t say a word.

She said, “I’m going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last wild fling, just come up and get me.”

I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to the front door.

I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car. Lo and behold, my entire future family was standing outside, all clapping!

With tears in his eyes, my father-in-law hugged me and said, “We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn’t ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family.”

And the moral of this story is: Always keep your condoms in your car.

Tropez

Shen81 wrote: »

If you looked beyond your cynicism, you would have seen the whopper he has left. Thanks for giving me the pleasure of exposing his huge contradiction!

Mr Sanga, you say she made a "full on" move on you "though you were quick to put an end to it", how quick did you put an end to it? 5, 10, possibly 15 minutes? Full on implies a lot more than just a bit of flirting and as you have already mentioned prior to her full on move, that she has been "incredibly flirty" to me, full on implies you two have done something and the reason you want her out is because of your guilty conscience. You say you are afraid of her making up lies, but perhaps you are afraid of her telling the truth about what happened.

Her giving you the green light saying she would keep it secret is a sure sign you two have went further than you let on. It is there in black and white for everyone to see. I have been cheated on and I know the lengths a man goes to in order to cover his tracks and you sir, are trying to cover your tracks.

Nah, you've been cheated on so now you're assuming the worst, reading far too much into what could be a phrase written in a state of anxiety and claiming to be an expert on the subject.

"Full on" could be something as simple as this sister saying "Let's f###". It doesn't have to mean any physical contact has taken place or anything for the OP to cover his tracks over.

purpleshoes_2

Nodding_Donkey wrote: »

I was a very happy man. My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me—it was her beautiful younger sister.
My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight miniskirts, and generally was bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me, and I always got more than a nice view. It had to be deliberate. Because she never did it when she was near anyone else.

One day her “little” sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn’t overcome. She told me that she wanted me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. Well, I was in total shock, and couldn’t say a word.

She said, “I’m going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last wild fling, just come up and get me.”

I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to the front door.

I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car. Lo and behold, my entire future family was standing outside, all clapping!

With tears in his eyes, my father-in-law hugged me and said, “We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn’t ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family.”

And the moral of this story is: Always keep your condoms in your car.

Old joke, done the rounds on many an internet forum.

Ozzuk

I'd definitely go with the recording option. Set up a webcam with a public IP for next time she comes in wearing her undercrackers. Maybe ask her to do a little dance.

Let us know the IP, we can then advise on next steps, mark the dancing out of 10, and act as witnesses for your fiance. Can't go wrong.

Nodding_Donkey

purpleshoes wrote: »

Old joke, done the rounds on many an internet forum.

Yep the old ones are the best

ghosti

OP, i wouldn't say anything to your fiance without getting some evidence first. If you say anything it will be your word against hers and she is hardly going to put her hands up and admit to it. without evidence to back up what you are saying its going to really messy, with the possibility of you losing everything (fiance, reputation).

i know honesty is always the best policy, but there is no way anyone knowing your are honest if you need to prove it. best of luck OP, i would not want to be this situation

anotheruser

Sanga wrote: »

... i have a niggling doubt that she would take her side if her sister lies as they are very close.

How close?
Some guys would kill for the potential you have :P

In all seriousness, take the other people's advice and tell your fianc!e

OR

don't and keep putting your soon to be sister in law off.

Those are the options really. Choose. Don't try and think of another, look at those two and choose.

marleyboy

Shen81 wrote: »

Something has happened, I can sense it by the way he is making her out. He is not as innocent as he wants people to believe. Even if the "full on" was just kissing, it is still cheating.

Suspect you read far too many Mills & Boon books Ms Marple.

redpete

I see three options:
1. Go for it and hope you get away with it (you probably won't);
2. Keep it quiet and hope it stops. It probably won't, your fianc!e will probably find out and it won't be good.
3. Tell you fianc!e now. It might cause upset but would she prefer to know now or find out some time later?

Orlando_Virgin

The problem I think you've got here, is that you should have told the Mrs straight away. She is going to think you should have reacted impulsively and decisively towards no, and caused a scene about it.

Now you've waited this long, it'll allow her mind to wonder and think you might have fabricated it to cover something that has happened up. The only thing you can do is tell her ASAP and explain the only reason for delay is the awkwardness of the situation and her feelings. Otherwise you could be in trouble here.