Want to kick my fiancee's sister out

fivetide

January20 wrote: »

Actually, my last comment is not as tongue in cheek as my other comments, so I do wonder what would make you believe the OP?

Oh, and you've spread the seed of doubt in my mind now! Thank you very much!

Good riposte!


Basically, I am not suggesting these things happen, there is just something about the way this story is written does that make sense?


I apologise for making you doubt!

Randomjargon

If you like her you should go for it

If you don't then tell your missus

That's about it really

freezspirit

Set up hidden cameras around the home at least you will have evidence

marleyboy

Tell her bluntly that if you were into playing the field behind your Mrs back, it would have to be with someone with enough good looks and charm to make it worth the risk and not just any old slapper.

Shen81

Sanga wrote: »

She's been living with us for the last 10 weeks after her business collapsed and she had to sell her house. For the last couple of weeks she has been incredibly flirty with me but i took no notice of it because she is like that with most men. On Saturday night we had had a few drinks and she tried it on with me. It was a full on move on me, though i was quick to put an end to it and let her know i have no interest in her. Last night again when my fiancee was at work she came into the living room in her underwear and offered it to me, saying she will keep it secret and how taking risks is fun. Again i put her in her place and told her i'm not interested but she doesn't take no for an answer it appears.

I have no clue how to tell my fiancee what she's doing. I keep thinking she will turn it and say i came on to her just to cause trouble. No matter what i think it will cause trouble and to be honest i really need to get her out of our house in case she tries again. I think she will again tonight when my fiancee is at work. That seems to be her time to strike.

fivetide wrote: »

Good riposte!


Basically, I am not suggesting these things happen, there is just something about the way this story is written does that make sense?


I apologise for making you doubt!

If you looked beyond your cynicism, you would have seen the whopper he has left. Thanks for giving me the pleasure of exposing his huge contradiction!

Mr Sanga, you say she made a "full on" move on you "though you were quick to put an end to it", how quick did you put an end to it? 5, 10, possibly 15 minutes? Full on implies a lot more than just a bit of flirting and as you have already mentioned prior to her full on move, that she has been "incredibly flirty" to me, full on implies you two have done something and the reason you want her out is because of your guilty conscience. You say you are afraid of her making up lies, but perhaps you are afraid of her telling the truth about what happened.

Her giving you the green light saying she would keep it secret is a sure sign you two have went further than you let on. It is there in black and white for everyone to see. I have been cheated on and I know the lengths a man goes to in order to cover his tracks and you sir, are trying to cover your tracks.

clark24

An average determined female can put a 'full on move' very quickly. Within 1 minute she can leave a man in no doubt as to her intentions.

The average decent faithful man can put an end to it just as quickly.

Shen81

clark24 wrote: »

An average determined female can put a 'full on move' very quickly. Within 1 minute she can leave a man in no doubt as to her intentions.

The average decent faithful man can put an end to it just as quickly.

Something has happened, I can sense it by the way he is making her out. He is not as innocent as he wants people to believe. Even if the "full on" was just kissing, it is still cheating.

clark24

Shen81 wrote: »

Something has happened, I can sense it by the way he is making her out. He is not as innocent as he wants people to believe. Even if the "full on" was just kissing, it is still cheating.

I'm not getting that at all from his posts, to me he seems like a bloke who has a genuinely worrying situation and needs advice, and the only thing he is guilty of is not already telling his fiancee, but then I can understand why he needs advice on how to do that with the least fallout.

weatherlobe

May be she is being a little too literal with the oft mention phrase uttered at this time of year ' Tis the season of goodwill to all men...'

Mupette

Maybe your partner has trust issues and the sister is the honey pot?