Want to kick my fiancee's sister out

fivetide

I think next time you should just tell yourself it is a dream and wake up.


Sorry, I am a bit sceptical of this one.

January20

fivetide wrote: »

I think next time you should just tell yourself it is a dream and wake up.


Sorry, I am a bit sceptical of this one.

Life is often stranger than fiction

I do get tired of reading posts like yours though! To me it comes across as sheer arrogance; that of posters who think that because they don't believe a story they are right and all the rest of us as just stupid and gullible!

If you don't believe it, move on to another thread but don't digress the discussion! I can see this thread taking a turn for the worst now!

Errata

Tell your fiancee everything before her sister does, and gives a different version of who/what/why/when.

fivetide

January20 wrote: »

Life is often stranger than fiction

I do get tired of reading posts like yours though! To me it comes across as sheer arrogance; that of posters who think that because they don't believe a story they are right and all the rest of us as just stupid and gullible!

If you don't believe it, move on to another thread but don't digress the discussion! I can see this thread taking a turn for the worst now!

Well there you are, giving your opinion. I assume it is ok for you to give your opinion but no one else can do the same?


Also, do you notice the irony of you making this post, which has nothing to do with what to OP posted, and actually taking the thread off topic? Don't answer, you know it to be true and you are right, it will get worse.


To give a simple answer though, I never said any of those things or thought any of those things about anyone posting in this thread.


As already stated, I just felt that the opening post, underwear included, seemed a bit far fetched. If the OP had written simply "she has twice made a move on me which I feel is highly inappropriate" then I may have been more trusting.


This line however, just seemed 'off' to me "she came into the living room in her underwear and offered it to me". That's why I am sceptical. I never called the OP a liar.


Nothing more nothing less. It annoys me when posters like you get all judgemental and assume lots of things about other posters for no reason too


I would welcome the OP convincing me this is on the level. Sounds interesting but has shades of campervan on the driveway for those who remember that.

McKneff

pinkshoes wrote: »

Er... Just tell your fiancee the truth, and tell her she needs to tell her sister she has 48 hours to move out. You should have told her after the first time, and the longer you leave it, the worse it will look.

Do not keep secrets from your fiancee.

If your fiancee doesn't believe you, then clearly she is not worth marrying if she doesn't trust you.

Forget every other post on here, even your own when you say its awkward.


The above post is the only one you need. Follow it to the letter.

pollypenny

Tell your fianc!e now!

The sister is out to make trouble. There may well be some trouble, but it's better if you speak up. The longer it hangs over you the less convincing your side will seem.

January20

fivetide wrote: »

Well there you are, giving your opinion. I assume it is ok for you to give your opinion but no one else can do the same? Yep ;)


Also, do you notice the irony of you making this post, which has nothing to do with what to OP posted, and actually taking the thread off topic? Don't answer, you know it to be true and you are right, it will get worse. Oh yes absolutely :rotfl:but couldn't help myself


To give a simple answer though, I never said any of those things or thought any of those things about anyone posting in this thread. I know! and I said it's the way I feel (I know, I know!) when I read such posts so not just yours!


As already stated, I just felt that the opening post, underwear included, seemed a bit far fetched. If the OP had written simply "she has twice made a move on me which I feel is highly inappropriate" then I may have been more trusting. just because it never happened to you :D


This line however, just seemed 'off' to me "she came into the living room in her underwear and offered it to me". That's why I am sceptical. I never called the OP a liar.


Nothing more nothing less. It annoys me when posters like you get all judgemental and assume lots of things about other posters for no reason too Welcome to my world ;)


I would welcome the OP convincing me this is on the level. Sounds interesting but has shades of campervan on the driveway for those who remember that.I wonder what the OP would have to do to convince you!

Actually, my last comment is not as tongue in cheek as my other comments, so I do wonder what would make you believe the OP?

Oh, and you've spread the seed of doubt in my mind now! Thank you very much!

C_Mababejive

I think you should tell your partner everything and also how uncomfortable it makes you feel. There is a real danger that if its left ,this woman may say you tried it on with her or even had sex with her.

j.e.j.

You need to tell your fiancee but I would second the advice about recording it if she does it again. If this woman's morals are such that she's trying to bed her own sister's fiance, she's very likely to spin a pack of lies if she's confronted about it and try and make the OP look like the bad guy.

sulkisu

fivetide wrote: »

I think next time you should just tell yourself it is a dream and wake up.


Sorry, I am a bit sceptical of this one.

I'm not.


The same thing happened to a work colleague - only in her case it involved her daughter, not her sister. When her partner told her what the daughter had been up to, her daughter denied it and said that he had been the one trying it on with her, eventually she had threatened to tell her mum and he got in there first. The poor woman didn't know who to believe - and to this day, she doesn't know who was telling the truth. Her relationship with her partner ended and her relationship with her daughter has never really recovered. For those people saying that if OP's fianc!e doesn't believe him she isn't worth marrying, bear in mind that this is her sister, not some stranger. Somebody that she is probably very close to and trusts implicitly. How many of us (with normal sibling relationships), would find it easy to choose between believing our partners over a brother or sister - especially over something like this?