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Three choices in life; Give up, Give in or Give all you've got!!

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  • That's what my DH said Levi! My DS2 turned 5 last month, so he is very much in the age bracket too. So funny how they already have 'roles' - peace keeper, leader, naughty ringleader etc.

    Loved the little girl describing how she 'nearly died from swine flu because your heart can't breathe' :A:A Xx
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  • Levi-
    Levi- Posts: 1,235 Forumite
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    Yep! There was a little girl who also looked a LOT older. I'm guessing they are all from the same year but different ends of it! And I guess it is a year when they change a lot.
    That little girl Skyler is going to be a diva in a few years!!

    LOL at the girl who said "good girl for sharing" to her. :D Cute!
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  • Levi-
    Levi- Posts: 1,235 Forumite
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    Sorry to go on about it but that chocolate-cake boy is now standing beside Skyla.. no way is he 4!! :eek:
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  • Lol Levi, there is a 'little' boy in DS2's reception class who towers above everyone like that!
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  • Levi-
    Levi- Posts: 1,235 Forumite
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    Hulk! That will be LL soon if he carries on drinking so much milk :rotfl:
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  • mary_hinge
    mary_hinge Posts: 1,585 Forumite
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    Just catching up lovely lady :grouphug: I'm sorry I haven't been around..... life is hectic but I know you "get" it.

    Please do not let your life and the little luckie's Lives be a prisoner to you anxiety. Anxiety is amongst one of my hardest daily challenges and I wouldn't wish it on anyone BUT you cope with so very much on a day to day bases you can kick it's @r£$ no questions. Honestly. YOU can do this and we will all be here holding your hand, cheering you on.

    Tips,

    break down everything in to manageable chunks, assess what is "normal" anxiety and what is above and beyond. Then make your
    plans.

    count to 10, listen to your breathing, jump up and down or what ever helps you. we are not all the same. I love elastic bands, I ping the heck out of them when my heart starts racing and the short sharp shock pain brings me back down.

    be honest with yourself and keep talking, it really does help.

    have reachable expectations, we often joke about being superhuman but no amount of underwear over our jeans make us any more like wonder woman then the next. If you can't manage to juggle it all then it is because you are juggling too much not because you can't juggle.

    be kind to yourself Lucky

    Much love xx
    Living in a superhero induced haze :A:A
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  • Thank you so much Mrs H. I do "get it" and I appreciate you taking the time out of your even-more-hectic-than-mine day to offer support.


    I will certainly try out those strategies. Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • mary_hinge
    mary_hinge Posts: 1,585 Forumite
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    Thank you so much Mrs H. I do "get it" and I appreciate you taking the time out of your even-more-hectic-than-mine day to offer support.


    I will certainly try out those strategies. Xx

    have you booked in to the GP yet?
    Living in a superhero induced haze :A:A
    "You did good Kidda!" :D
  • mary_hinge wrote: »
    have you booked in to the GP yet?

    Nope. Gotta do it by phone and they aren't open :p. Will do it in the morning. Pinky promise Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • HI Lucky, anxiety makes your world such an unfriendly place

    I hope you have managed an appointment today x
    Trying to shift that debt!
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