Friend's attitude has hurt me

HPoirot

ScarletMarble wrote: »

There is no such thing as a one minute conversation with her - the shortest is 10! She has ignored me iabout 2 years ago by lying saying she will be late for the bus! I knew she was lying as I know the times of the 3 an hour bus.

2years ago????!!!!!! Are you for real???!!!!!

No joy in a caring, giving friendship for you eh OP? Was this the last friend you had?

purpleshoes_2

ScarletMarble wrote: »

There is no such thing as a one minute conversation with her - the shortest is 10! She has ignored me iabout 2 years ago by lying saying she will be late for the bus! I knew she was lying as I know the times of the 3 an hour bus.

I actually think you need some kind of counselling to deal with whatever issues that you have that make you hold onto issues that happened two years ago.

Your threads are really bizarre and the ones you used to post under your last username were similar, full of tattle about people you worked with.

Make new friends, do new things, get a life, you clearly need to do something to stop obsessing about other people and their issues when you seem to have no self awareness and can't see how rude you might look to other people.

Lily-Rose_3

purpleshoes wrote: »

I actually think you need some kind of counselling to deal with whatever issues that you have that make you hold onto issues that happened two years ago.

Your threads are really bizarre and the ones you used to post under your last username were similar, full of tattle about people you worked with.

Make new friends, do new things, get a life, you clearly need to do something to stop obsessing about other people and their issues when you seem to have no self awareness and can't see how rude you might look to other people.

She doesn't have any previous usernames remember? (Post 28)

Sorry Scarlett, but I agree with Purple, that you really need counselling. Your behaviour towards this friend is bizarre. I have rarely seen your posts, but from what everyone is saying' they have always been a bit 'erratic' shall we say???

Edwardia

Whatever your age or hers, life is too short to spend with people who don't appreciate you, who make you feel guilty when you're busy, who don't apologise for hurting you, who walk all over you and take you for granted.

Friendship shouldn't be a PITA it should be a positive which adds something to your life.

Georgiegirl256

ScarletMarble wrote: »

If have read my posts,I have been trying to ring her during times I have contacted her in the past. She does not have caller id her phones. So when the phone rings, it could be anyone. Does not communicate in other methods - text, email etc.

If I was able to speak to her normally, I would not had to encounter her rudeness twice in two days.

My friend thinks the lack of communication from me equals problems. It does not!

How on earth did we all manage before the advent of mobile phones and email? :cool:

Don't know about you, but if I wanted to get hold of someone, I managed to do so pretty easily....

Lily-Rose_3

Georgiegirl256 wrote: »

How on earth did we all manage before the advent of mobile phones and email? :cool:

Don't know about you, but if I wanted to get hold of someone, I managed to do so pretty easily....

I do wonder that too sometimes Georgie! :rotfl:

Calien

Serious question, is there anything about her that you do like?

redpete

ScarletMarble wrote: »

If have read my posts,I have been trying to ring her during times I have contacted her in the past. She does not have caller id her phones. So when the phone rings, it could be anyone. Does not communicate in other methods - text, email etc.

If I was able to speak to her normally, I would not had to encounter her rudeness twice in two days.

My friend thinks the lack of communication from me equals problems. It does not!

How about writing a letter to her explaining how you feel?

duchy

Maybe she found your last thread about her !

I don't know for sure which of my friends from elsewhere are on here-some I know for sure and I'm sure there are others I don't know about ......but there's certainly some so I'm very careful how I identify (or rather disguise) anyone I mention who I'm annoyed with or has done something I'm not happy with.

picklekin

To be honest.. both you and your friend sounds as nuts at each other, who storms up to people and shouts at them for ignoring them?? Who wont sit next to someone they know at a play? You both sound like a right pair of loons. Maybe you deserve each other!