Being friends with an ex.....

Dozey_crow

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Since I told him, I feel a weight has been lifted. He's so self involved, and has been unbelievably rude. I have been dealt quite a knock confidence wise, but whatever I think of myself, no one deserves to be treated quite as dismissively now he's bored of me.

He's not the man I thought he was, and I feel an utter mug.

See...it's therapeutic. Do you know what you are the polar opposite of being a mug. You have lost the rose tinted glasses and see him for what he is.. you railside that he had treated you badly and he is not the man you thought he was.

These are big positive steps. Contrast that with a few pages ago where you were describing how amazing he is and how everyone would be after him etc.

Now you realize that you deserve better. It's still gonna be hard and horrible to come to terms with everything that's for sure but you seen to be putting yourself first so well done.

emsywoo123

Dozey_crow wrote: »

Do you know what you are the polar opposite of being a mug. You have lost the rose tinted glasses and see him for what he is.. you railside that he had treated you badly and he is not the man you thought he was.

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This is really appreciated thank you. I should know better at my age but I never seem to.

I have been through worse. Onwards friends. And thank you all. :beer: