IA's 'Does my bum look big in this Debt?' Diary

immoral_angeluk

earwig wrote: »

please dont misunderstand me im not saying you got to have your child in school by the age of three just that they are entillted to 2 and half hours of school preschool you dont have to send them to school untill they are five thats when the law says they have to be at school by my ds has been going to preschool and loves it and it gives hime the chance to mix with other children his own age as we dont know any other three yearolds so its good for him also gives me the chance to catch up on things to

Do you mean the free nursery sessions that are government funded? If so then I was planning to as well. Lets just hope I can get her into the one joined to her possible future school.

earwig

immoral_angeluk wrote: »

Do you mean the free nursery sessions that are government funded? If so then I was planning to as well. Lets just hope I can get her into the one joined to her possible future school.

yes but you dont have to use it for school nurserys you can use it for pre school centers as well if you are wanting to get your child into a certain school your be best to put her down on the list now i had to put ds and dd down on our local school list when they were 1 :eek: as the places went really fast a lot depends on your catchment school if yours is ok then it dosnt matter so much you should be able to get ash a place but if like mine it rubish then you need to get ash down on the list as soon as pos

immoral_angeluk

well she's already on the list for the proper school..

immoral_angeluk

I feel awful as I've really let myself down today. I don't know if it's PMT or what but I have literally had no patience today and have found myself shouting and slamming things about.
K was just crying because she was tired and I just lost and shouted at her. I feel like the worlds worst mum right now. Ashey's been playing up as well but she's obviously just reflecting my crap mood and tiredness because of K not sleeping.
So fed up right now. think I need a good cry and a decent nights sleep.

slowlyfading

Sending big ((HUGS)) your way. Take a step back and look at how much you've achieved this year and how much you are doing each day. xx

Floss

:grouphug:

Ask Ste if he can do this evening's duties with the girls & try & get a really early night with a mug of hot chocolate to help you sleep, although I don't think you'll need it! Then at least you will have had a big chunk of sleep if either A or K wake later in the night.

I know i sound like a mum (and i'm sorry, but i'm old enough to be so that's my excuse!) but are you getting enough vitamins, maybe you need extra B vits now you're off the AD's? Or failing that, a few bits of dark choccie always help!

Hope you feel better tomorrow,

Love Floss xx

P.S. I think you're a great mum & wife - wish I'd been as able to deal with everything at your age, and I only had 1 DS then!

Ellidee

Aww hon sorry you are feeling cr*p today. We all have our off days and everyone loses it with their kids sometimes. Please don't be so hard on yourself -YOU ARE ONLY HUMAN !!!
Hope you get an early ,hopefully undisturbed ,night. Sending you a hug XX :grouphug:

sammy115

Awwww, chicken! I hope you are in bed right now, getting a few zzzzzz'ssss. You are not a bad mum at all, just the opposite. But you are surviving on broken nights, stress, worry, ups, downs, the lot......

You are doing fantastic! Hope you feel better tomorrow....(please insert huggy smiley here, I can't do it!:rotfl: )

mrsspendalot

IA I have had one of those days too, although I know mine is PMT and tiredness. I was losing it with the kids even before school this morning! Get a good sleep and you should feel loads better in the morning.

Snaggles

Sar, I'm sorry you have had such a bad day (((hugs))), you are NOT a bad Mum just because you've had a bad day, the fact that you are even beating yourself up over it just shows that you care.

It's okay to feel a bit guilty when you have been cross at your kids, if you didn't you probably wouldn't be the fantastic Mum that you are - but don't dwell on it, it's over, tomorrow is a new day and you can be lovely, kind, caring Mummy again, and they will both forgive you and love you just as much as ever.

I hope you manage to get some sleep tonight and feel much better in the morning. xxx