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Confusedandneedhelp

lotty41 wrote: »

I didn't know he had a track record for cheating!!

So?

Does that mean he has cheated on you?

It's funny how he has a 'track record' for the negative, but the positive is taken for granted.

I dont think you're not ready for a relationship

Confusedandneedhelp

missbiggles1 wrote: »

Good grief - if everybody went to see their GP if they suspected a partner of cheating, the NHS would collapse!

Talk about medicalising a character trait!

Im talking about her obviously severe mental health needs.

I actually work for the NHS and you'd be surprised to learn that 1 in 4 people go to their GP to talk about a mental health issue

lotty41

Confusedandneedhelp..........I'm not ready for a relationship?? whys that then? Is it because I seem to attract liars????

Are you ready......if you want to start on that one, then my guess is your confusedandneedhelp because you've been single for a very long time, for a good reason!

Snakey

lotty41 wrote: »

I didn't know he had a track record for cheating!!

What I mean is, if you are the "other woman" in a relationship then you know that the man is not the faithful type. The girlfriend, obviously, may or may not be aware of this. But I was talking from the perspective of our hypothetical knicker-planter.

lucym

Confusedandneedhelp wrote: »

Im talking about her obviously severe mental health needs.

What nonsense!

ljonski

In 1994, he(Chris de Burgh) was found to have had an affair with his children's 19-year-old Irish nanny, who was assisting the family while de Burgh's wife Diane was recuperating in the hospital from a broken neck during a horse-riding accident. (wiki)

Guess what was found in the marital bed when she got home? - No not undies but something just as incriminating.!

lotty - some people will be supportive, others will knock you down. Well done for standing up to the internet bullies! I think the real trolls are the people who slag you off as a person,without a backward glance at their own idiosyncratics!

Lotty

lotty41

OMG.....you work for the NHS.....God help us all, no wonder the NHS is failing!!:rotfl:

I didn't know people go to the NHS with mental health issues! Oh I'll have to look into that one!!

I sense you have a few mental issues yourself....and I'm guessing you are a bit of a woman hater!!!

Confusedandneedhelp

lotty41 wrote: »

Looking at my thread history! Are you joking!!

I can only assume that you are a man!

So consfusedandneedhelp.....what have I ever posted on here that is in the slightest bit dodgy??

confusedandneedhelp......what is it that you need help with, you seem a little confused.

I would bet my bottom dollar that you have maybe been accused of wrong doing in the past? Right or wrong? To me you seem to have reacted in a very defensive way to my thread!!

I think you'll need to re-read my post. I said NOT a troll. See its those little details that get lost on you isnt it? I checked your thread history because others are accusing you of being a troll.

I think you're just abit nutty personally.

Think you have enough issues, dont want to take mine on.

Actually i havent been accused of cheating, ever. And i havent cheated ever. I'm defensive because i used to be like you! Ive been cheated on, had trust issues etc. and I got over it

lotty41

ljonski.....thank you and well said.

I can say one thing, I wasn't a happy bunny when I woke this morning, but confusedandneedhelp and actually cheered me up now, was upset to begin with but now can see the bigger picture.

So thank you confusedandneedhelp you have given me hope that I'm not as crazy as some people, and you have given me the biggest laugh of the day......no week!!

lotty41

Dont remember ever been called a troll!

I'm glad you got over your issues, bully for you.

Oh may I ask where you got the help from.....was it the NHS! Maybe they hold evening classes for 'The cheated ones'