Strange undies found!

lika_86

Flumina wrote: »

For the person who asked if women cut the labels out of their underpants, I do if the label is in the middle at the back, as it gets a bit annoying and uncomfortable. If the label's at the side I tend to leave them in.

It also depends what colour they are, I've had pink lacy knickers with a big black label which shows through and looks wrong so I've cut it out. It's not an uncommon practice.

hieveryone

lotty41 wrote: »

May seem weird but I tried them on.....did this thinking it might jog my memory but it didnt.

Sorry but this is definitely a wind up... you found some random knickers in your own bed, are now convinced your husband is cheating on you - and you tried them on???

I don't think so.

tea_lover

lika_86 wrote: »

It also depends what colour they are, I've had pink lacy knickers with a big black label which shows through and looks wrong so I've cut it out. It's not an uncommon practice.

This is the new thing I've learnt today . I must just be lucky with label placement/comfort as I've not had to remove any.

But I still maintain that I would recognise all of my underwear, even if I hadn't seen it for a while. After all, even if these somehow got lost the day OP moved in, they can only have been missing for just over a year at most. How could you forget what your own pants looked like in that little time??

Tropez

lotty41 wrote: »

Tropez....where do I find 'temp files folder'.

I prob wont be able to delete the private browsing tab bit complicated I think.

What web browser do you use?

In Internet Explorer you can go to Tools, Internet Options, and on the General tab go to Browser History and then Settings.

There will then be something marked Temporary Internet Files and History Settings and the option to View Files.

But if you're using Chrome, Firefox or something else then it will be a slightly different process.

lotty41

Might just do that. Anyway thanks again everyone, can see I'm heading for a bit of stick if this thread go's on. Will keep an open mind.

lotty41

Thanks Tropez, I've taken a look, but it only seems to have today's info on, lots of it, numbers and letters etc.

Morglin

Alikay wrote: »

Unless there are cats or dogs involved (your own or someone else's which could've come into the house bearing gifts) I'd be very,very suspicious.

There is no way I'd fail to recognise my own pants, least of all something as striking as black rose print ones. I'm afraid I'd be carrying out a major intelligence operation including hacking emails, checking credit card bills and phone records if I could get them. Whilst I agree that trust is paramount, something as unexplainable as this, coupled with the circumstances, and his history and secretive behaviour would mean my trust in him would be compromised beyond a level at which I'd be able to let things go.

Blimey, really?:eek::eek:

All that checking and hacking?

Wow.

This entire thread is nuts as there can only be 3 possible explanation for the knickers (assuming no teenage girl, or animals with a knicker fetish, who also can stuff them into a duvet cover),

1) they are the OP's, which is the obvious one

2) partner cross dresses, but for some reason hides them in the duvet instead of throwing them away or hiding them somewhere secure

3) he has a bird, who for some reason, after sex doesn't do what every other woman would do - put them back on, or, put them in her handbag. They cannot have been a deliberate 'plant' or she would have hidden them somewhere more obvious, such as under the bed!

Lin :whistle:

hazyjo

Can you get into his itemised mobile calls?

Check through bins carefully (bathroom, bedroom).

Jx

Tropez

Alikay wrote: »

Unless there are cats or dogs involved (your own or someone else's which could've come into the house bearing gifts) I'd be very,very suspicious.

There is no way I'd fail to recognise my own pants, least of all something as striking as black rose print ones. I'm afraid I'd be carrying out a major intelligence operation including hacking emails, checking credit card bills and phone records if I could get them. Whilst I agree that trust is paramount, something as unexplainable as this, coupled with the circumstances, and his history and secretive behaviour would mean my trust in him would be compromised beyond a level at which I'd be able to let things go.

Would it not make much more sense just to leave him at this point? Let's say you do all that hacking, snooping and intrusive behaviour and you turn up absolutely nothing - when's it going to end? You're already suspicious enough to start this so surely all you're going to be doing is looking for something to confirm your suspicion... but what if you never find it? Do you keep looking forever? Do you stay in a relationship in which you have so little trust that you did that in the first place while you're snooping?

And what if all that you turn up indicates it might have been some sort of bizarre mistake? Because you know, if someone I was with started going through my stuff and carrying out their intelligence operation I would find out about it and our relationship would be through.

You clearly wouldn't trust the guy anyway to mount your operation, so surely the relationship is over anyway, right? It's bizarre to me that someone would go to so much trouble when the simplest thing would be to get out of a relationship and stop wasting precious days, weeks or months of their lives with someone that they don't trust and clearly have no respect for.

Alikay

Morglin wrote: »

Blimey, really?:eek::eek:

All that checking and hacking?

Wow.

Lin :whistle:

After coming back from a night away to find another woman's pants in our bed along with out-of-character behaviour and a history of lying and cheating? Too right I'd be checking up......

Luckily in 27 years of marriage (and a lot of time working away) I've never felt the need to check up on my DH, because no knicker-related, or similar occurrences have jangled my instincts, but should it happen, I would definitely investigate .