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Is it becoming more common for older women to date younger guys?

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  • jaylee3
    jaylee3 Posts: 2,127 Forumite
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    Just wondered bakers_dozen, when you met the woman you are in a 'relationship' with now, did she used to come to the door in a see through nightie? And did you feel she was using you as a booty call to start with?

    Have you got a date with her tonight, and are you nervous?
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  • Bakers_Dozen
    Bakers_Dozen Posts: 109 Forumite
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    jaylee3 wrote: »
    Just wondered bakers_dozen, when you met the woman you are in a 'relationship' with now, did she used to come to the door in a see through nightie? And did you feel she was using you as a booty call to start with?

    Have you got a date with her tonight, and are you nervous?
    Jaylee i wasn't going to respond to you again but after laughing at this i felt compelled to. None of the above applies to me and going by your recent performance on this forum you are taking cheap shots at someone else. Is your life really so dull that you have to attempt feeble character assassinations on a public forum? I think you need to get out more and mingle with adults, because you are very immature.

    To just clear a few things up from above, we live together so there is no need for a dinner date but i am cooking dinner tonight because she finishes work late today. As for her choice of lingerie, i think that is too private to be posted on a public forum and is none of your business really, is it?
  • themull1
    themull1 Posts: 4,299 Forumite
    I'm 45 current husband 54, i like older men, last husband younger than me - 3 years, husband before that, older than me - 9 years, same age as current hubby.

    Ive gone out with younger men, but they go on like big kids. i like an older, more experienced man - Brian Blessed is my ideal.....
  • TrickyWicky
    TrickyWicky Posts: 4,025 Forumite
    If I'm honest, I'm not so sure age is important anymore. If two people like each other and they both realise it and want something to happen then so be it.

    Some people do have issue with age while others don't. I don't think anyone can definitively answer the ops question to be honest.
  • BrassicWoman
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  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    you are studentphil and I claim my £5!

    If you joined in August last year, how do you even know about studentphil?!
  • Toomuchdebt
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    thorsoak wrote: »
    You are just indulging your wet dreams - women want men - not spotty gowks!


    I'd go out with someone in their 20's and I'm 43. I've always got on better with younger men. My ex is 32. We split when he was 29 because he cheated, His age wasn't a problem at all.
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  • I dated a guy who was double my age when I was 25. He was lovely and it just didn't matter how old he was, he was fun to talk to and spend time with. It took a couple of months to realise I'm five years older than my boyfriend - we had a rough idea, but didnt really think about it until birthdays started coming round. But I have been told that I do look quite a bit younger than I am, so perhaps that had some bearing on things.

    Maybe it's about personality and being compatible, rather than what other people think, nowadays?
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  • BrassicWoman
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    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    If you joined in August last year, how do you even know about studentphil?!

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  • gik
    gik Posts: 1,130 Forumite
    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    If you joined in August last year, how do you even know about studentphil?!



    THE studentphil is/was a legend. He had a part time job in a library if memory serves me correctly.
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