Nice People 12: Nice in Nice

Nikkster

michaels wrote: »

Doesn't matter what you say it is just good to hear from you :j

Doozergirl wrote: »

That's the best post you've ever made. You're back. Welcome back, lovely.

You two said exactly what I wanted to say.

Dearest Spirit, my friend, we are here for you if/ whenever you need us. Much love to you and your family xxx

lostinrates

I have cheated and gone behind the back on one of the most profound relationships a woman had with any man in her life.

Unlike fir I DO share.

I went to a different hair dresser this week.
Fir went today.
He has shorter, bit less curly hair for some client meetings this month, ( looks a bit older:( but less eccentric) mine is just happier with products its missed.

I feel really bad for my last hair dresser who will feel hurt.

Nikkster

LydiaJ wrote: »

I think you should ask him. When I was in a bit of a state last summer and told the occupational health nurse that I thought I was letting the department down and being a waste of space professionally, she made me go and ask my HoD if he really thought that. It was scary asking him, but such a relief when he told me not to be daft.

Nah - I'm guessing the document I send hadn't been opened but I put in my email that I wasn't entirely happy with it yet, it needed referencing a bit of re-writing etc etc.

I got a reply back within half an hour of my email... with a couple of very recently published papers that I might 'find interesting'.

I believe I have the answer without asking.

Doozergirl

Generali wrote: »

Lie down in front of the TV and take absolute control of what's on, even while sleeping.

Doozer does this all the time. It drives me to distraction!

lostinrates

I find space perception really funny. It was amazing watching 'phase one' how space looks bigger or smaller with walls/ with out them, with widows/ without them,/ with doors. Or even on different days.


No change since Thursday, but today the bit of garden having work seems really small.
. Cats seem huge on it.

LydiaJ

Nikkster wrote: »

I believe I have the answer without asking.

If you have enough of a belief in the answer to stop worrying about it and get on with writing the thing, then that's sufficient.

My recommendation that you should ask was based on the premise that you thought "not enough potential to be worth bothering trying" was an actual possibility.

Nikkster

LydiaJ wrote: »

If you have enough of a belief in the answer to stop worrying about it and get on with writing the thing, then that's sufficient.

My recommendation that you should ask was based on the premise that you thought "not enough potential to be worth bothering trying" was an actual possibility.

I wouldn't have let it stop me anyway (I don't need a reason to not do it!)... I am the girl who sent a scrappy first draft with the file name 'final draft' at 10 minutes to the midnight on the day of a deadline. Which turned out not to be such a deadline

I'm still not full of self-belief, not by any stretch of the imagination. But all I'm doing is working through my list and getting rid of those sticky tabs. That's all

Spirit_2

lostinrates wrote: »

I congratulate myself for being such a positive influence.

Tired and mistyping with one hand or are you having language problems? If its the latter, at least I have broken this lot in for you, eh?

Myspeeh is ok butow and mythinking. Is slower

lostinrates

Spirit wrote: »

Myspeeh is ok butow and mythinking. Is slower

Well, speaking is important. And you'll heal.

And you're very much you, Its shining through.

silvercar

lostinrates wrote: »

Well, speaking is important. And you'll heal.

And you're very much you, Its shining through.

If you can speak that shows that all the bits and bobs that are meant to be linked are linking. In time the rest should follow.

Know we are all with you in spirit